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Is it weird if I’ve had friends ask to hang out with me during my birthday but have never invited me to their own celebrations or birthday hangouts?
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Anonymous 4w

Those are not ur friends 😬😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Do you think it’s worth asking them why they never have?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’m kinda worried if I’ll do they’ll assume I’m making their birthday about myself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I mean I do think that it can be worth it to ask them why they never have, but if u are a person that gets hurt easily maybe gets nervous at those type of conversations it might be better to just drop them and sustain ur energy and peace

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

If they assume that ur making UR bday for yourself (which it is supposed to be because it’s the day u were born) that just means that they could be jealous, feel inferior and entitled which is very toxic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah I think I might let it go at this point. I think if they really cared or wanted me there they would’ve included me or given an explanation. I’m not gonna beg or chase anyone to be friends with me 🤷🏽‍♀️

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