
my mom was a naked mom, and im just gonna say it can def cross a line. I didn’t really have a problem with her like just being nude most times but the issue was when she would except me to feel comfortable with things just because she was the one who birthed me. like she’d grab my body a lot when I was developing and say weird shit about how boys r noticing im growing… and when id tell her i didnt want her to touch me down there she’d say “well im your mother and i made you so your body is mine”
Only brought this up cause I’ve seen a lot of girls use the same reasoning for being a naked mom like saying moms are the ones who give birth so its natural for them to be nude around their kids but that’s the same excuse my mom would use to basically molest me… just don’t understand why u would even need to naked in front of ur kid in the first place.
yeah but like u can believe that and ur kids might think it’s gross for u to be naked around them… i just don’t understand why ppl feel the need to be nude in front of their family even if u yourself doesn’t think that’s sexual… it’s also perfectly normal to change ur habits after kids are born. like if you think it’s okay to be nude then be nude in your own apartment but don’t subject your children to that and then just say “well it’s not sexual” as if that means they just have to be okay w it
Or when ppl are like “it’s not predatory you’re just white” like uh my moms African af it didn’t make it feel more normal knowing that when she was naked around me I was just like can this lady put her fucking clothes on… also I’m not okay with my dad walking around shirtless either like I just think it’s odd either way
No I totally agree kids should have the choice to set boundaries about nudity regardless of how I feel about it. If my hypothetical kids were uncomfortable w it I wouldn’t do it the same way I don’t change in front of friends who aren’t okay with it even though I personally don’t care if they see me.