Anonymous #1 8w

The other girl is a loser ! My friend and this guy were together the past 5 years and broke up a month ago and he’s been fuckin the new girl since. She knew he had a gf too so what a snake. It’s hard to give all the details but he’s also not officially anything w the new girl idk now she’s like I just wanna know how he’s doing like whaaaaat no wha?!

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Anonymous #1 8w

Further clarification, they had picked out rings and planned their lives together n shit. (Personally I never thought they’d make it but besides the point) they broke up under the guise that he was working on himself and eventually probably they’d find their way back, then she found out abt the new girl like a week later and that’s when she told him to choke and flipped out. for good reason cus he didn’t have to say any BS abt self improvement he should’ve grown some balls and said he’s done

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Anonymous OP 8w

Omfg my ex did basically the same thing. I was FAR too understanding and forgiving and looking back, he used that to manipulate me into absolving him of guilt. It took me a while to process just how absolutely disgusting his behavior was because at the time I really wanted to believe he was a good person who cared about me. I’m still pissed at myself for showing him even a shred of kindness. I lost my dignity and also justified his victim mindset. DO NOT APOLOGIZE HE DESERVED IT

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Anonymous #3 8w

Like he actually had me apologizing for the smallest things but he never really took accountability for all the BS that caused me to react poorly in the first place. I so wish I held my ground and had the balls to say something mean to him instead of pandering😭 He was just so sad and pathetic I felt bad for him at the time lmfao

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Anonymous #4 7w

yall needa shake ass or something! take your friend out i’m telling you shaking ass makes my mind act right when i’m having a moment of weakness

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Anonymous #4 7w

God this is so my problem I try to be so nice about everything I say like I never want to come off as insensitive to how she’s feeling cus like yes she is such a bad bitch and deserves better and fuck him but I don’t wanna be like stop being sad and just get over it already yk

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Anonymous #4 7w

I did help her make tinder that helped for a lil bit just for a distraction. We are also abt to go to the beach so maybe we’ll have some fun there but neither of us are drinkers and I personally have been to rehab soooo we avoid the bars/clubs 😭

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Anonymous #4 7w

I’m also like 90% sure in her mind she’s still imagining them working it out and getting back together eventually. So I also try to barely mention him like I’d like to say he can choke and die but I don’t want to in case they get back together 😭 so I try to say like let’s not worry abt what he’s doing let’s keep working on us

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Anonymous OP 7w

yea no don’t tell her to stop being sad and get over it lmao that might be insensitive. but if you remind her how fine she is and what a good woman she is that’s better. and you need to remind her that any chance of it working out between them was murdered when he decided to fuck a bird!!

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Anonymous OP 7w

oh babes you don’t need to go to a club or get drunk to shake ass ok! i’ve never set foot in a party or a club im not that kinda girl. but have a sleepover, put on some britney spears or rihanna and pretend yall in a music video! yall some things i do w my friends is act riding amusement parks, bowling, lotssss of sleepovers. many ways to get turnt w out clubbing/partying or drinking! ✨

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