so last year and this year we have gone to my place. well her other gma died a few weeks ago, and her long time bf broke up w her in jan, and a bunch of other stuff (she is having a truly shitty year) and we have been planning her bday and all of our friends aren't showing up almost and it's pissing me off so bad

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her college friends all can't drive up which, it's her 21st birthday and her gma just died like suck it up, but also i get it. our hs friends who ik live close by and are free are making weak ass excuses and it's so frustrating bc it isn't a big ask or anything and she's struggling sm and ik she feels like shit about it and i can't do anything about it

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bc i am technically hosting ive been a little pushy but obviously i dont wanna be an asshole. between hs and college friends i think like 10ish people were invited and 3 are showing up. it just makes me sad for her and frustrated by my friends rn. ty for listening!

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