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How can I get my boyfriend to clean? The apartment is a mess, dishes are piling up, and I keep asking him and he does nothing. I hate to threaten kicking him out but I’m honestly getting to that point. He lives here rent free and ups the electric bill🙄
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Anonymous 1w

tell him one more time and if he doesn’t, threaten to kick him out. if he doesn’t take you seriously or reacts in any negative way, kick him out and dump him. you’re not his mother, it’s not your job to take care of a grown ass man. ESPECIALLY if he does not contribute. you deserve better, up your standards. if he can’t live up to them then go find someone who will

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Anonymous 1w

by breaking up so he can learn that u rnt gonna be his mother for the rest of ur life

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Anonymous 1w

he’s a grown man, he should know how to pick up after himself. don’t let yourself be his mom

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Thank you girl, I needed this 😭

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