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i have a feeling that future me will thank me for taking body pics in the mirror and being immodest and that's what keeps me away from purity culture
134 upvotes, 25 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "i have a feeling that future me will thank me for taking body pics in the mirror and being immodest and that's what keeps me away from purity culture"
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Anonymous 8w

It’s so weird how modesty is pushed on young women and told that their Clothing is grown but then when grown women wear the same Clothing they’re told it’s childish???

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Anonymous 8w

YUPPPPP I’m using this body while I still have it

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Anonymous 8w

& tbh a real genuine “purity” culture if it existed, would be focused on shaping people’s hearts to not be perverted toward someone’s natural god given body. Real purity is about the heart, not the things the heart chooses to lust after. I wish that was a movement instead

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Anonymous 8w

real bc yk what for the girlies that genuinely feel most comfortable and confident being modest by all means do that!! but tbh i hate feeling pressured into being super modest at 19 years old

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Anonymous 8w

#deathtopurityculture please and thank you❤️❤️

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Anonymous 8w

I think that we’ve gone backwards bc of this whole trying to avoid purity culture to the point where everyone is sexualizing themselves in the name of “impowerment” I just hate the whole “women in men’s fields” thing. I genuinely don’t even think purity culture is the norm anymore, it’s being extra provocative to “fight the patriarchy” but it genuinely think it doesn’t do what everyone thinks it does

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Anonymous 8w

deadass bc im bad and and will always post my bombalishious body.

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Anonymous 8w

Where do you put them so no one else sees?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

NO FR like i gotta give myself something to appreciate when im 80 looking at old pics of tea young me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

I’m going to be serving cunt and having these tiddies out until the day I die. I’m not letting society think older women need to be modest

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

oh don't even worry me too ima still be wearing the crop top + low rise pants combo with my bling belly button piercing until the day i close my eyes to rest for eternity

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

Feeling sexy and doing things to feel good about that isn’t a man’s field. Are men the only people that can say what’s sexy and have destroyed the concept for the rest of us? Also purity culture is real asf where I live and in my family and we’re in a liberal ass situation- women don’t do stuff for the sake of empowerment unless there’s something real that they’re empowering themselves FROM

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

I guess I don’t mean this specific instance if it’s just personal sexy pics to make yourself feel confident. I just meant the whole anti purity movement (not into purity culture don’t support btw) is not what ppl think it is😭 ur doing what the men want atp and just claiming it’s for yourself or other women. I’m just not explaining myself very well

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

I just don’t understand the ‘claiming it’s for me but it’s actually for men’ I don’t put on cute makeup and dress up in alternative/jfashion styles for men I do it for women and myself bc I’m a sapphic bisexual lmao. Like not everything women do is for men- men would get turned on by a curvy tree like that isn’t my problem. They have to deal with seeing hot shit like I do. Anti purity means that we need to stop victim blaming women and their fashion for men’s bad choices, and that women can wear

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

What they want, just like how men can.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

no one said anything about fashion girl. I don’t give a shit what women want to wear😭 i know most women do not exist to preform for men. I am also bisexual.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

I so agree with this especially growing up as a black girl being seen as fast was my biggest fear and the main reason I had to fight to feel confident in my body

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

sexualizing yourself for a man is wrong either way but i don't think that's what any of the women who are upvoting and replying to this meant let's not lump that in with being anti purity culture though bc it goes way deeper than being about what men think but about the plethora of young women who felt uncomfortable to come out of their shell in fear of what society will have to say about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

i'm gonna start using bombalishious i love it

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

Oh I wasn't talking abt nude pics my mirror pics are either fully clothed or underwear/bikini which i don't think need to be hidden

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Oh good And yes you will 100% be grateful you did that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

You had me thinking if I should be taking nudes for my older self 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

LOL i mean if you're comfortable do it i'd be way too scared they'd somehow get leaked

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I feel like put them on a flash drive 😎

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

I like this idea it's mysterious

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