
Unfortunately once you hit menopause I think you’ll understand why she’s prioritizing it over your discomfort. Like 1 said get a space heater or thicker blankets, oversized Sherpa lined hoodie, stuff like that. Cooling blankets don’t do much for hot flashes. My older co workers were talking about how they’ve stripped naked and laid on the cold tile floor to only get minor relief from it
the problem isn’t being cold in my room, i have a heated blanket and it’s fantastic! the main problem is that it’s messing with my body/brain. i no longer know how to dress to go outside bc i have to dress for winter inside. and i can’t shower in my bathroom anymore. i understand she’s struggling, i just wish there was a better solution :/