Girl Talk on Sidechat | I don’t understand why people say I’m avoidant for not wanting to say “I love you” after 5 days. I didn’t love him and he didn’t love me, he just liked me and thought any little emotion was love.

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Girl Talk 11w

I don’t understand why people say I’m avoidant for not wanting to say “I love you” after 5 days. I didn’t love him and he didn’t love me, he just liked me and thought any little emotion was love.

Anonymous 11w

whoever said that has no real/ healthy concept of relationships or what avoidant attachment really is. this is why i hate when psychology terms become popular , bc ppl are too dumb to use them correctly. bottom line girl you’re fine don’t listen to that shit

Anonymous

#1 10w

i hate it so much bc now ppl try to paint someone who is a touch avoidant as like an evil manipulator who will play with ur heart with no remorse. and then also label someone who is just like not codependent with their partner as being a ~super evil~ avoidant! like damn sorry i have friends! not to mention ppl will have different attachment styles in different situations, it’s not a static state of being.