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The concept of virginity was made up by men who think their dick has power
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Anonymous 21h

holy shit you’re right

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Anonymous 20h

THIS THIS THIS THIS

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Anonymous 17h

Honestly, same as calling someone a “pussy”. Bc ik damn well ur balls don’t push out a human that’s physically mostly developed

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Anonymous 19h

Preach

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Anonymous 17h

wait but what i’m a girl and want my bf to also be a virgin 😰 but i do think many things are just stupid such as the metaphor of “a key that opens many locks is a great key but a lock that can be unlocked by many keys is a bad lock” like okay and a toothbrush that has been in many mouths is a bad toothbrush?? them believing body counts for men are different than for women is ridiculous especially bc they are the ones carrying hpv since it doesn’t affect them much while it gives women cancer

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Anonymous 19h

Wait that so true

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Anonymous 18h

wait i like this

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Anonymous 16h

guys idk in Christianity we are both called to waiting until marriage and it’s not a power dynamic thing and more because of soul ties

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Anonymous 18h

On god

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Anonymous 17h

in many religions and spiritual practices it’s believe the women’s reproductive organs hold power so i’m more inclined to believe that

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Anonymous 16h

The concept of virginity arose to establish clear lineage and secure property inheritance. Without modern birth control or DNA testing, requiring female chastity before marriage allowed men to ensure they were the biological fathers of their heirs.

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Anonymous 16h

but if u change your perspective u can say virgins haven’t found a dick worthy enough for sex

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Anonymous 7h

Guys sex does not create soul ties please stop listening to manosphere talking points

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Anonymous 14h

I feel like the big deal with virginity nowadays is so annoying bc it doesn’t change you once you lose it. I remember as a teen being so worried that my mom would be able to tell when I lost it but once the time came I realized I’m still the same person. It’s also stupid how ppl make such a big deal over a concept that you can easily lie ab

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Anonymous 7h

I mean I kind of agree but science shows that when you engage in sex with someone, chemicals in your brain create a connection that can be hard to sever later one. Plus I can’t see myself ever having sex with a man without having a real genuine emotional connection. So if I’m a prude for waiting to find someone who meets my standards so I can form an emotional connection with them then I’ll take being a prude any day than just being used and discarded one time for just my body.

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Anonymous 17h

absolutely

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Anonymous 17h

Yup

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Anonymous 17h

‼️

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Anonymous 12h

“If you call something unclean after you have touched it, take a look at your hands”

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Anonymous 12h

Woah I like this lore theory ur cooking up here

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Anonymous 9h
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Anonymous 11h

Any man I’ve met that’s been obsessed with virginity also seems to find any way to claim they haven’t lost their virginity despite doing oral, anal, mutual masturbation, and everything in the book BESIDES vaginal penetration. I don’t understand the mindset. Sorry but if you have touched and been touched by multiple women you are not a virgin idgaf

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Anonymous 10h

So a male minor who is r4p3d by his female teacher doesn’t lose his virginity? Make it make sense.

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Anonymous 14h

I agree with this statement. But personally, I would like to keep my virginity because of vulgar a lot of men are today.

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Anonymous 10h

virginity also goes for men, but i do agree with how outrageous it is that society holds losing it over women in a degrading way but cheers on men for losing theirs

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Anonymous 9h

Had to explain that having sex for the first time literally changes nothing about your anatomy to a man everyone has to go 😭

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Anonymous 7h

Virginity is a completely cultural concept, and not all civilizations throughout history believed in it! Ancient Egyptians had no word for “virgin” or “virginity”

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Anonymous 10h

say it louder for those in the back

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Anonymous 17h

I mean yes but also no 🤣 I love the phrasing of this however!

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Anonymous 13h

This might be the stupidest thing i've ever heard 😂

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Anonymous 16h

It does

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Anonymous 19h

you slow or..

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 17h

PREACH

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 16h

🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 16h

Being called a dick is also a insult lmao

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Anonymous 16h

Do you always admit ur brain is the size of a walnut to strangers?

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Anonymous 16h

Did it take you awhile to get this ratio

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Anonymous 15h

Bro they only downvote when they don’t hear something that agrees and supports them😭😭.

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 15h

I’m not a bro, but this is true. I’ve learned to not care what the hive mind thinks because I’ve seen what it’s produced, and it’s pretty disgusting.

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 15h

You don’t tend to think much do you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 15h

What else would be the point of a downvote button?

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 15h

Pussy=scared/weak. Dick=rude. Both insults but one still insinuates power

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Anonymous 15h

Your intelligence/humor is far too savage to be appreciated in a place like this #9. I hate that it made me laugh at their expense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 15h

Data log for innovator/early adopter/bandwagon/late adopter/missed the train, trend analysis?

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 15h

You guys are both in this chat rn… the call is coming from inside the house if u didn’t realize that

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 15h

So is this your first day on social media?

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 15h

Not a guy. Also I don’t own a house. 😕

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 15h

No. I just don’t look at it like the scoreboard most people do. I’ve found most of my friends online weren’t able to help me jump the battery to my car but wanted me to show up to a party and bring my other real life friends and that sort of got the ball rolling on the idea the faker an idea/persona/movement is, the more likely I’ll see it trending on the internet. Thus far it’s tested 1:1 for causality.

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 15h

And having balls is a descriptor for being brave

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 15h

you could also tie in bastard children just not existing in historical data

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 14h

More ab the worried my mom could tell thing, I got this idea bc I had seen sooo many TikTok’s and comments of ppl saying how their mothers could “just tell” that they lost their virginity. They made it seem like something about you physically changed or your overall demeanor changed due to having sex. I feel this would apply to causes like SA but for consensual sex losing it has no impact whatsoever🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 14h

Maybe because that’s how history wrote itself, men hunted women stayed home, been this way for centuries, men are naturally more brave and stronger than women, so saying pussy correlates

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 13h

Yeah sure, but men normally call people who are “weaker/less powerful” pussies.

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 13h

No women way back in history also hunted. Men and women did the same things before society put roles on women

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 13h

Neither sex is naturally more brave. Men might be more likely to engage in risk taking behavior but that’s due to socialization and testosterone. Also archaeological evidence suggests women hunted just as much as men did and assigned roles were likely not sex based.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13h

That word has nothing to do with the body part but I see what you’re saying if it did.

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Anonymous replying to -> helpmereletpls 13h

Wdym has nothing to do with a body part? As if men haven’t said they wanted pussy, aka Vigina, for years

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13h

I mean calling someone a pussy. It’s not related to the body part it’s usually used as a short term for pusillanimous. Or at least that’s what I’ve heard. Idk don’t quite me on it though💀

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Anonymous replying to -> helpmereletpls 13h

*quote

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Anonymous replying to -> helpmereletpls 13h

Yeah I guess that’s true lol, I’ve js always correlated the two

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 13h

It really doesn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 10h

Women hunted small game around their resting area to care for their offspring, men in fact hunted way more, u can say this about anything women do stuff men do yes, men are more prone to take risks making them more brave

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 7h

The fictionalization of the hymen has rotted their brains

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Anonymous replying to -> #44 7h

No one said it does. But Oxytocin is a real chemical that makes relationships physically and psychologically harder to break. Oxytocin is released during sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 7h

yalls limp dicks don’t change a thing about a woman😭 also if ur gonna bring up hymens not every woman has one myself included and not to mention that shit can break using a tampon

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Anonymous replying to -> #44 7h

Oop, nevermind #20 said that soul ties.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7h

Do men even still care about hymens? I thought everybody knew that they can break randomly and have nothing to do with virginity nowadays

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Anonymous replying to -> #43 6h

So real. My hymen tore when I was 16 from my fucking DOCTOR inserting my iud 😭 like be fucking fr

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