
wait but what i’m a girl and want my bf to also be a virgin 😰 but i do think many things are just stupid such as the metaphor of “a key that opens many locks is a great key but a lock that can be unlocked by many keys is a bad lock” like okay and a toothbrush that has been in many mouths is a bad toothbrush?? them believing body counts for men are different than for women is ridiculous especially bc they are the ones carrying hpv since it doesn’t affect them much while it gives women cancer
I feel like the big deal with virginity nowadays is so annoying bc it doesn’t change you once you lose it. I remember as a teen being so worried that my mom would be able to tell when I lost it but once the time came I realized I’m still the same person. It’s also stupid how ppl make such a big deal over a concept that you can easily lie ab
I mean I kind of agree but science shows that when you engage in sex with someone, chemicals in your brain create a connection that can be hard to sever later one. Plus I can’t see myself ever having sex with a man without having a real genuine emotional connection. So if I’m a prude for waiting to find someone who meets my standards so I can form an emotional connection with them then I’ll take being a prude any day than just being used and discarded one time for just my body.
Any man I’ve met that’s been obsessed with virginity also seems to find any way to claim they haven’t lost their virginity despite doing oral, anal, mutual masturbation, and everything in the book BESIDES vaginal penetration. I don’t understand the mindset. Sorry but if you have touched and been touched by multiple women you are not a virgin idgaf
No. I just don’t look at it like the scoreboard most people do. I’ve found most of my friends online weren’t able to help me jump the battery to my car but wanted me to show up to a party and bring my other real life friends and that sort of got the ball rolling on the idea the faker an idea/persona/movement is, the more likely I’ll see it trending on the internet. Thus far it’s tested 1:1 for causality.
More ab the worried my mom could tell thing, I got this idea bc I had seen sooo many TikTok’s and comments of ppl saying how their mothers could “just tell” that they lost their virginity. They made it seem like something about you physically changed or your overall demeanor changed due to having sex. I feel this would apply to causes like SA but for consensual sex losing it has no impact whatsoever🤷🏼♀️