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Girl Talk 14h
How to leave my ex. God I love him deeply, I know all the ins and out but also all the outweighed negatives. I tried being friends and explaining I just want to live rn, make money, have fun, move out. But he thinks we are more, or says he can support me
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Anonymous 13h

Mind you, he can support himself right now. And we were together for 5 years and couldn’t afford tiny things but still refused to do free things I planned for him to do for me. Crazy right! The 1 year we separated he finally got his act together a bit and it’s gotten a bit better over time for him. But now, I simply just don’t want it. I want to do things myself first before becoming reliant on a man who isn’t my dad. Just idk acting grown.

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Anonymous 13h

Secondly he got mad at me bc I had mentioned my weekend plans that were asked of me 3 weeks ago, not news to him. But also I rarely go out. So he asked if he could join- mind you still never ever taken the time to send me a plan or ask me to do smth. Only just to hang out or when I’m free but idk free for what guy? What’s the PLANN. And gets mad at that, besides the point, he doesn’t even like my friends and called him racist names to me even when I asked them to help me help him on smth -1

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Highly important to me and they love me so they were going to go wayyy out of their way to help him out. It didn’t work out and I’m not going to LIE to my friends abt what happened or why I get upset, or even the few times we are together and then he blows up my phone simply bc he can and won’t admit he gets some rise out of bothering me when I see anyone else even for a store run. So they also don’t like him. But claims I shit talk, I barely text them once a month idk guy. Maybe act right -2

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Lastly… why would I bring ppl together who don’t like each other, especially if it was smth I was personally invited too without having a mention of a plus 1 ordeal. He’s just mad bc I have plans. And now it’s been like 5 days without talking and I think I’m blocked. He does this a lot. It’s annoying, but I still want him around idk why. But I not dating ANYONE. Imagine a more self focused, slightly hoe summer.

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