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Girl Talk 23w
My friend knows I’m sad about being single and always sends me screenshots of cute or funny conversations with her partner… like I’m happy for you girl but come on
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Anonymous 23w

damn that feels very direct, like weird to send ss? I dont share my texts with other people but maybe thats just me lol

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Anonymous 23w

That’s actually weird

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Anonymous 23w

I’m not sure how to feel about it. We met on bumble bff and haven’t met in person yet because of school and living situations and stuff like that. But she’s very nice from what I know. I think she might be on the spectrum (I’m sorry if that’s the wrong term) because she does kinda lack some social cues and has reposted some stuff implying it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

Like it kinda hurts my feelings but I don’t think she’s doing it to be mean

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

If she’s on the spectrum you’re gonna have to be direct with her. Set boundaries, and tell her how that makes you feel. Not doing so will only build resentment and not teach her a valuable experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 23w

Thanks for the advice, I was thinking about it but I’m not sure how to bring it up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

Don’t assume malice intent, because that only causes a defensive reaction. when you bring it up be like, “Hey, __ ik when you show me cute/funny screenshots of you two you don’t mean anything malicious by it, but I have been feeling uncomfortable by them as of late.” If you want be vulnerable and share how it makes you feel, “they keep reminding me how single I am and it’s not bringing me the joy it brings you. I hope you understand.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 23w

Thank you! Yeah I don’t think she’s doing it to be malicious by any means. I’ll tell her something like this if she does it again

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