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I feel guilty about being annoyed/ jealous of my bsf but basically everything in my life is shit rn and she won’t stop talking about all her wins (I always act happy for her bc I want her to be able to talk to me), and ditching our plans for her bf
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Anonymous 2w

it’s okay to feel jealous or annoyed, but it’s also understandable that you feel guilty for it. it’s no fault of you, but it might be a little bit on her part. personally, when there’s certain aspects of my life going well, i usually try not to bring it up excessively to people that i know are struggling in those aspects.

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Anonymous 2w

well being happy for her wins while you’re in a different season is definitely hard and the fact you feel guilty shows jealousy is a natural emotion just don’t hang on to it! what’s not cool is ditching plans you made to hang with her boyfriend that’s not something a real friend does that’s bird behavior. especially if it happens often. I had a friend like that and I let her fly away bc it’s disrespectful and unnecessary. chances are he’s not ditching his friends for her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

That’s what really makes me annoyed, I feel like I go out of my way to consider others ppl’s feelings when things are going well for me. Ofc I don’t expect the world to be sensative to me, but I expect my bsf to be mindful of my feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

and that’s completely fair!!! not even gonna lie, the first time i commented i hadn’t registered all of what you said. i may make time to hang out with my bf, but if i have prearranged plans with my friends ill NEVER ditch those to be with him. i think you should talk to her about how your feelings aren’t being considered. i hope things work out 🩵

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Yeah thanks, I totally get wanting to spend time with ur bf lol I’m not jealous of the bf but just overall annoyed with her making plans with me, then ditching said plans for her bf (and being insensitive like I said). Shes really stubborn so I’ve been hesitant to talk to her but ig that’s the only way we can move on from this

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