
October wasn’t that long ago, if he was sleeping with another girl that soon before u went official id take it as a bit of a red flag? He shouldn’t be in contact with this girl anymore if he slept w her in the past and def if it was right before ur relationship tbh. It’s just disrespectful to u.
I responded to the first person abt this but i’ve been in multiple relationships where men were hiding things on their phone throughout the time we were dating and I only found out because I went through their phone. (Onlyfans, texting other girls etc) Yeah that might be wrong of me but I would rather find out now if he has things to hide or if he’s that kind of guy rather than later on in the relationship