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sorry this is somewhat long but please help a girl out. I don’t know if i let my anger issues win or not 🥲
5 upvotes, 10 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "sorry this is somewhat long but please help a girl out. I don’t know if i let my anger issues win or not 🥲"
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Anonymous 3w

October wasn’t that long ago, if he was sleeping with another girl that soon before u went official id take it as a bit of a red flag? He shouldn’t be in contact with this girl anymore if he slept w her in the past and def if it was right before ur relationship tbh. It’s just disrespectful to u.

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Anonymous 3w

No why does he still have the picture?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

My ex stayed close friends w a girl he’d been with before our relationship and it was a huge point of concern for me. He ended up kissing her the day we broke up. Genuinely just looking out for u! Don’t get urself into that type of situation pls

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

The girls face wasn’t in the picture so i don’t even know what she looked like but I believe they aren’t talking anymore, idk i could be wrong but i didn’t find anything to suggest they were

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Then ig it shouldn’t be a big deal if he’s not still in contact w her tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

But also u feel the need look through his phone only 2 weeks of dating. That’s a major sign on it’s own that u don’t fully trust him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I responded to the first person abt this but i’ve been in multiple relationships where men were hiding things on their phone throughout the time we were dating and I only found out because I went through their phone. (Onlyfans, texting other girls etc) Yeah that might be wrong of me but I would rather find out now if he has things to hide or if he’s that kind of guy rather than later on in the relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Like ur past trauma makes sense as to WHY you did it but it’s still not justified and you need to have trust to have a relationship. If u have trust issues this early on maybe you shouldn’t be in a relationship?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

that’s my question, like maybe he just forgot to delete it? or he thought i wouldn’t find it 🤷🏽‍♀️i’m trying not to act like a crazy bitch but i want answers

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

It’s weird to me, any pics of guys I was with before my bf are poofed

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