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Can someone explain to me why when I tell people I don’t want kids there first reaction is “oh you’ll change ur mind” like first of all no tf I won’t and second of all you know nothing abt me.
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Anonymous 1d

I have a rare genetic mutation (first person in my family w it. The universe just said “lol let’s give it to her”) and get told by my fam “well you don’t have a bad case! Why not have kids?” bc it’s a risk that I don’t want to take?? Seems unfair to hypothetical children to chance it

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Anonymous 16h

I want to adopt bc I don’t want to be pregnant (terrified of postpartum as I have a history of severe mental health disorders) and have consistently been told “oh you’ll change your mind” like hello?? why do these people want me to get pregnant so bad oml

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