lol proving the point

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so you’re saying you need to worry about guys befriending women why? cause they’ll sexualize them and be a concern. right. so that’s the point. men and women can be friends platonically if men aren’t weird but even men know men are sexual most of the time do women can’t befriend them

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Anonymous #5 18h

it’s almost like you’re proving that point

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and who’s buying the onlyfans smart ass?? MEN

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it’s men paying millions for only fans!

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Man if I wanted to die I’d jump from my IQ to yours

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take advantage of weak men is crazy holy shit they are capitalizing off of dumbasses like you

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you’re literally not welcome here, gtfo

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I’m a man. You’re still a damn dumbass

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You have said literally nothing that is correct. The fact that you’re on this app means you’re in college… genuinely terrifying that there’s an institution that would accept you bro

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They know there’s a massive market for it. Capitalizing off of their bodies isn’t exactly a choice . Ppl who need money have been doing that for centuries. It doesn’t make it right . Their mental health suffers and they’re not happy. Those who do it and cope w it by playing into the role MEN WANT . It’s still about men . They succumb to the sexualization and to COPE , pretend it’s empowering

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Okay ya she could obviously . That’s what feminists like me believe . Men can’t watch certain vids and pictures of women don’t provide that . And it’ll help improve the dehumanization and objectification of women. BUT that doesn’t solve oversexualization . They used magazines, before that, girls showing their ankles..it doesn’t matter what girls do if guys live w a certain dehumanizing over-sexualizing mindset .

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It’s the entitlement to a women’s body . And the objectification of a women. Only fans didn’t cause that, it only exacerbated the issue . The problem was always there . Aka men who ONLY sexualize women and don’t see their personhood

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Anonymous #10 17h

Being attracted to a girl wearing revealing clothes is perfectly normal. That does not mean you have an overly-sexualized brain. It is perfectly normal for a man to be attractive to a women who's naked or wearing revealing clothes, its biology. What is not normal is women posting themselves naked, and wearing extremely immodest clothes in public. Modesty is importantly. (Also I am not saying that it's the woman's fault for dressing that way if she gets raped, it's 100% on the man.)

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Anonymous #4 17h

Okay but if u remember , we were talking about men talking to women in normal settings. Women talk to men who are in relationships and it doesn’t mean they’re trying to get w them.. men just assume that bc it’s projection . What I’ve noticed is they can’t be normal ab women anymore . It’s an overwhelming amount of sexualization no matter what. Even if she’s dressed modestly . They sexualize that too. It’s a mental illness

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OH MY GOD CAN YOU GET OUT OF HERE ALREADY

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Ur very combative and it’s not cool. u keep insulting the ppl ur commenting w . It’s ok to disagree.

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and u keep mentioning sexualization and men biologically wired for that. Fine but what were all talking about how men OVER sexualize women (like ur doing) to the degree that they can’t even have a causal non platonic conversation/relationship w out their being undertones or the assumption that something sexual will happen. This is unethical and UNNATURAL.

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you know I wasn’t the one saying shit, just that you aren’t welcome here, get it together douche

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Anonymous #10 15h

Sorry I meant platonic *

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Anonymous #10 15h

Bro stop acting like women don't like sex too 😂 It's biology for both men and women to be attracted to each other. Women fien over guys too

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Anonymous #10 15h

There's nothing to disagree about what I said. They said men sexualize women all the time, and I pointed out that Women also willingly sexualize themselves. Which is why men aren't the ones making millions and millions on Only Fans

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Anonymous #9 15h

Ok? Who tf do you think you are 😂 talm bout some "you don't belong here"

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Anonymous #4 15h

What’s your point?

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Anonymous #4 15h

UR A MAN ur not supposed to be on girl talk but for some reason , u can’t respect that

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Anonymous #19 15h

BRO LET IT GO. U DONT belong here bc this is girl talk and ur a man. And yes ur right, women do like sex but both men and women shouldn't OVERSEXUALIZE. That's when we fall into dehumanizing objectification territory and society cant survive like that . Look at men’s SA /murder stats against women How about how men act when a man gets SA'd. They over sexualize women and assume it wasn't assault cuz the man must have liked it. men don't look past a women's boobs to see her heart that's dangero

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Anonymous trippnsac 15h

Asexual men exist. Gay men exist. Men who do not see every relationship with women as sexual/romantic exist. If you want to remind everyone that “not all men” sexualize every woman, you can’t assume that every M/F friendship is secretly non-platonic, and therefore automatically have a problem with your GF having male friends.

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Anonymous #4 15h

Hey so you know what consent is right? Some women consent to being sexualized in specific scenarios. Some men (“not all men”) see some women who’ve consented to being sexualized, & assume therefore, all women are/want to be sexualized by men. If you’re the type to say not all men, but assume M/F friendships are non-platonic for the above reasons, youre the type of man women complain about.

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Anonymous #23 15h

Ew

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Anonymous #26 15h

Then get off the Girl Talk page you fuckin moron.

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Anonymous #23 15h

Yall fr need to hang around better men. You’re projecting onto others & it gets worsened/reinforced by the algorithmic echo chambers.

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Anonymous #23 15h

Also gtfo of the girl talk page.

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Anonymous #4 15h

U deleted ur comment to change the narrative and act innocent . I’m crying . u kept calling ppl idiots and cursing u keep missing the point no matter how much we explain. we’re taking about CONSENT and OVER sexualization . U just don’t get it. Maybe the call is coming from inside the house and u need to examine ur beliefs .

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Anonymous #19 15h

Why would someone wanna ragebait themselves if they feel like this I’m crying 😭

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Anonymous #19 14h

promise you every man is like this. why do you think every good and kind father is worried of who their daughter dates? i am friends with more women then men because i am a good person and i make women feel safe around me. i still have thoughts that i push away. it’s biological. sorry.

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Anonymous #23 14h

having sexual thoughts are biological ,fine. But over-sexualization is cultural . And acting on that is a choice . And if u have too many sexual thoughts, that’s a personal issue to fix . Bc that is actually not normal. Examine why this is happening men are socialized to think ab sex too much and this objectifies women and this dehumanization of women is perpetuated by other men and puts women into genuine danger .

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Anonymous #10 14h

The first time I learned how often men think sexually compared to women I was absolutely horrified ngl

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Anonymous #28 14h

Then why do men keep persisting it’s not “all men” and that they should have a chance and they keep crying ab the male loneliness epidemic but now we’re being shamed for trying to still trust men ? Women will always be the bad guy bc men refuse to take responsibility

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Anonymous #23 14h

You cannot make a promise about the inner thoughts of half the planet, kid. And even if it’s most men, the problem isn’t sexual urges/attraction, it’s the culturally instilled incentive for men to project their urges onto others—Men & women alike.

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Anonymous #10 14h

men just can’t stand the idea that some spaces aren’t for them and don’t have the capacity to understand why. you wouldn’t believe the number of men you’ll find in the lesbian groups on here, it’s actually disgusting

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Anonymous #30 14h

Fuckin idiot

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Anonymous #30 14h

R u slow?

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Anonymous #30 14h

another idiot ladies and gentlemen (even though they shouldn’t even be in here)

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Anonymous #30 13h

Shit I guess I’m a dude now huh

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Anonymous #23 13h

Oh so no. If you have “horrible thoughts” you need to seek help. If your friends have “horrible thoughts” they need to seek help. Thoughts about sexually assaulting someone is not normal. It’s not a gendered thing, it’s a normal vs psychopath thing.

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Anonymous #31 13h

Horrible thoughts are “once you see one woman naked you want to see them all naked”

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Anonymous #4 13h

why are u in a girls chat room🫩🫩

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Anonymous #31 13h

“Completely changing the completely” such a way with words. I’m assuming you meant “context” otherwise I have to ask if you smell burn toast

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Anonymous #31 13h

i don’t have thoughts about sexually assaulting people. but if a women wears something low cut i notice it bounce and jiggle and i enjoy it. and ill imagine seeing them

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Anonymous #23 13h

That’s not normal. Seek help you fucking pervert

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Anonymous #23 13h

“and i’ll imagine seeing them” yo get some fucking help

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Anonymous trippnsac 13h

as someone whose seen women naked before, that’s actually not normal at all. you should seek mental health counseling

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Anonymous #31 13h

it’s absolutely normal. inject testosterone into your body and see how you think. it’s literally just biology. you won’t ever understand unless you’re a man.

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Anonymous #23 13h

but i thought women were the ones controlled by their hormones… and men were the logical, rational ones…?

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Anonymous #18 13h

what are you saying everyone is controlled by their hormones. your brain chemistry dictates how you act in every single scenerio

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Anonymous #23 13h

You’re not alone

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Anonymous #1 13h

Thank you for this😭

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Anonymous #18 13h

Okay, some men do just like to see other men naked

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Anonymous trippnsac 12h

sure yea, men and women are both nice to look at given the right context. but having any sort of house training tells you to control yourself in public. only weirdos who should be on lists can’t control their behavior around women.

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Anonymous #18 11h

Read Intercourse by Andrea Dworkin for the opposite feminist view.

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Anonymous #32 11h

that last line is not an own. you do not need a vagina to understand how women may carry with them some suspicion toward their potential sexual partners. use ur brain, bro.

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Anonymous trippnsac 10h

Waiting until marriage exists. More men are virgins than women.

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Anonymous #43 10h

Oh, there’s nothing like emotional infidelity

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Anonymous trippnsac 10h

I’m not saying having the emotions in itself are the problem I’m saying emotions can lead to emotional decisions I’ve always thought “emotional cheating” is bs. As soon as you take attraction and combine it with feelings you can have messy results. Both parties need to be able to push that aside and maintain a friendship. No guy wants to meet her friends and run into Josh John Jacob jack just like a girl dosen’t want to meet Ryleigh Kyleigh and Kayleigh

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Anonymous #43 10h

Prime example of what I’m talking about. Your emotional connection can grow into attraction. Additionally, you can look outside your relationship for emotional satisfaction not found within.

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Anonymous trippnsac 10h

Wait so are you disagreeing or agreeing with me?

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Anonymous #43 10h

Most women find emotional infidelity more painful than physical. So yeah, I disagree with you.

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Anonymous trippnsac 10h

So what to you is emotional infidelity. I’ve never really been big on that cause to me sex should be the most emotional thing you could possibly do with another person. Personally I’d rather a girl crying to a guy friend or vice versa rather than getting a she’s busy bro text

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Anonymous #43 10h

Alright, definitely sound like a dude. Emotional infidelity is going to that opposite sex person and crying on their shoulder. It’s painful to hear that a man needs another woman in his life to feel emotionally supported.

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Anonymous trippnsac 10h

I am a dude. I was confused as fuck when “for the girls” popped up on my yik yak lmao. I’m just here trynna learn. I guess it is different for women not wanting your boyfriend crying to another woman especially because for most men they’ve only really cried infront of a select number of women so I can see it being offensive that you’re choosing another no family member over you

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Anonymous #43 9h

I like how we’re having these great conversations and we’re stuck at the bottom of this feed. The hell is wrong with these people?

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Anonymous trippnsac 9h

Fr fuck em were better than them

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Anonymous #45 9h

I wanna be your friend girl 🥺😩

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Anonymous #45 9h

Same

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Anonymous #19 9h

No😘

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Anonymous #23 9h

bro genuinely go fuck yourself. I am trying my best not to comment on this thread as a dude, but holy fucking shit NO. dms off, this isn’t pick-me bullshit. NO. You are a freak. Stop telling yourself this is normal and see somebody. If you tell your future sons that this is normal, holy shit. I promise you every man is not like this. hearing you say “women feel safe around me…” makes me terrified for the women in your life. It is not biological. There is hope for you.

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Anonymous #21 8h

No literally 😭

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Anonymous #41 8h

“That last line is not an own” the fuck does this even mean? My argument is that you can’t blame somebody when they finally adopt a mindset you usher them to have

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Anonymous #47 7h

I’ve been there & did not end up good lol BUT she’s her own person so either way saying something or not they know what they’re doing

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Anonymous #44 7h

No one mentioned rape. Women saying “all men” we mean all men are supporting or participating in misogynistic, oppressive ideals. It doesn’t mean rape you strung that together

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Anonymous #23 7h

I am a biologist. Firstly, women have testosterone in our bodies and secondly, it’s not normal to think of having sex with someone for having breasts. It’s a taught social trait, don’t fucking tell me that your social cues are biological. You have no fucking clue what you are talking about you perv

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Anonymous trippnsac 7h

You’re a porn addict

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Anonymous #23 7h

I’m a man and only fucking creeps think like u bro

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Anonymous #20 7h

i’m so sorry. you are so loved 💕💕. my dms are open if u need to talk!

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Anonymous #34 18m

I mean single now but I can usually gage the vibe of a guy my gf would be making friends with, and while I was often sussed out I thought a few were decent. The ones I thought were decent were also trying to hit though 😭😭😭

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