Anonymous #2 19w

They never even TRY to have an independent life. And if this life just really is for them then that’s fine but they never even TRY to experience the world first. And they’re like “I can travel with kids” like be so serious. No one wants to travel across Europe with a baby or young kids. They’re bad on flights, they don’t stay awake long enough to really experience and enjoy the trip, they’re gonna wanna be in the quiet hotel most of the day napping, they’re gonna be bored or scared

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Anonymous #2 19w

the fact that they associate education = partying shows how those around them failed them. now look! ur tied down in ur early twenties cleaning up toys and doing laundry as ur most exciting event that day and ur friends are enjoying a trip to Greece paid for by degrees and jobs. then wanna be bitter abt it like u dug tht grave sis

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Anonymous #2 19w

then they start the “ oh gen z is just mom shamers “ “ wasnt feminism meant to give us choice of lifestyle “ baby thats not living. u have gaslit urself into thinking going to london with three toddlers is romantic and fulfilling.

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pure gaslighting. its like 18 year olds trying to tell their followers on socials getting married right out of hs was just meant to be. welp now ur stuck in that town and ur not goin nowhere! didnt even get to really LIVE yet.

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Anonymous OP 19w

What gets me is she’ll blame their friends for not stopping their lives for her. Like they’ll continue to do young adult things such as go to college and travel. And she complains that they “cut her off” like girl it’s not their fault you purposely made yourself home bound. It’s not their job to not experience life just bc you chose not to

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Anonymous #2 19w

reminds me of this tik tok of a SEVENTEEN YO MOTHER saying “i have no friends but my bf i need more mom friends or something “ who set that system up? no 17 yo wants to hang around with a baby its not their fault. they wanna see things, explore, have a life.

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ive been saying the same recently. im 22 and the thought of being “ too old “ already id crazy. my life has only just begun, they wanna brainwash us into a quarter life crisis and im not doing that🤣 pls ! i have degrees to complete, a life to live

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I actually made a post the other day about how I always see women sympathizing with their mom and grandma. How they will encourage her to be single and experience life and these women do that in honor of the women in their family who couldn’t. I wish I had a family like that so bad. Instead I have a mom who plays with the baby clothes every time we go shopping and tells me she “needs” grand babies. She already has some from my brother. She’s been doing this since I was 20, I’m now 23. All the-

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Anonymous #2 19w

-women in my family only ever talk about when I’m getting married and having kids. They were mad I went to college but only fine with it bc they assumed it was my chance to meet a rich husband. I graduated single. Told them I’m going to grad school. Their response? “Are you even trying to find anyone? We need babies”

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like wdym im being punished bc i DIDNT have kids?😭 u can go be a mom then if thats ur dream job but dont let me see ur instagram notes saying ur all alone and everyones throwing it in ur face

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Anonymous #2 19w

my grandma 😵‍💫 every time she sees me she mentions if i found anyone yet and tht i cant take too long bc my body won’t be young forever. THAT IS NOT MY GOALLLL OMG ask me abt my degrees???

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this is irrelevant but pls send a dm i wanna possibly share socials if ur down bc i needdd girls around me with similar energy!!

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Anonymous #2 19w

i think i dmed u! plss check if not dm me i totally wanna talk more and possibly exchange socials

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Anonymous OP 19w

I didn’t get one but I deleted all but like Pinterest 😭 idk if you want that

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Anonymous #2 19w

girl yes idc just a way to chat !

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Anonymous OP 19w

I’ll post it since it’s not really connected to me lol. Username is wildflowerandbarleyy. Pfp is a Roblox character passed out

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Anonymous #2 19w

got it!

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