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i refuse to be friends with women whose only purpose in life seems to be men or babies. u have no hobbies, no career goals, school nothing.

Anonymous 6w

I can’t stand when women immediately go into marriage and kids. And they’re like “I didn’t want to go to college. Partying isn’t for me” like that’s fine but don’t you want to be able to have your own job and money just in case? The options aren’t a. Party b. Have kids. Like you can travel, get an education, learn another language, spend time with friends, pick up new hobbies

Anonymous 6w

this is a hot ass take but yk what i love it

Anonymous

#1 6w

the same way men are their friends, women are too. i dont wanna be associated with an uneducated SAHM whose unhappy with her life and living off of a man’s income with no backup if he divorces her or dies.

Anonymous

#2 6w

They never even TRY to have an independent life. And if this life just really is for them then that’s fine but they never even TRY to experience the world first. And they’re like “I can travel with kids” like be so serious. No one wants to travel across Europe with a baby or young kids. They’re bad on flights, they don’t stay awake long enough to really experience and enjoy the trip, they’re gonna wanna be in the quiet hotel most of the day napping, they’re gonna be bored or scared

Anonymous

#2 6w

the fact that they associate education = partying shows how those around them failed them. now look! ur tied down in ur early twenties cleaning up toys and doing laundry as ur most exciting event that day and ur friends are enjoying a trip to Greece paid for by degrees and jobs. then wanna be bitter abt it like u dug tht grave sis

Anonymous

OP 6w

yup. i’m actually HEAVILY against the whole trad wife/SAHM thing. i’ve never agreed with it because it genuinely makes no sense to me esp with how the world is today.

Anonymous

#2 6w

then they start the “ oh gen z is just mom shamers “ “ wasnt feminism meant to give us choice of lifestyle “ baby thats not living. u have gaslit urself into thinking going to london with three toddlers is romantic and fulfilling.

Anonymous

#2 6w

my cousin just had her 4th kid and they live in california. they haven’t traveled out of state with all of them, ever. the oldest is 6. she’s a great mom and i love her down, but people that think you can just causally travel with kids are lying to your face.

Anonymous

#1 6w

by the end theyre back to living with mom and dad and posting on facebook about how the world is so unfair to moms

Anonymous

#1 6w

pure gaslighting. its like 18 year olds trying to tell their followers on socials getting married right out of hs was just meant to be. welp now ur stuck in that town and ur not goin nowhere! didnt even get to really LIVE yet.

Anonymous

OP 6w

my mom was a SAHM once for maybe a year and went back to work bc she knew it wasn’t realistic. mind you this was in the early 2000s… humans are not meant to parent and raise kids in isolation with no friends and nothing to do for the rest of their lives… and they wonder why their mental health suffers and they’re depressed. your brain is literally telling you that it’s over it.

Anonymous

OP 6w

What gets me is she’ll blame their friends for not stopping their lives for her. Like they’ll continue to do young adult things such as go to college and travel. And she complains that they “cut her off” like girl it’s not their fault you purposely made yourself home bound. It’s not their job to not experience life just bc you chose not to

Anonymous

OP 6w

I was about to say 😭 they SWEAR they’re living the dream and that everyone is jealous of them. And then post on Facebook everyday about how they’re “going crazy” being isolated with no one but a baby all day

Anonymous

#2 6w

reminds me of this tik tok of a SEVENTEEN YO MOTHER saying “i have no friends but my bf i need more mom friends or something “ who set that system up? no 17 yo wants to hang around with a baby its not their fault. they wanna see things, explore, have a life.

Anonymous

OP 6w

people think i’m crazy for not wanting to get married at 30 and that my mom having me at 30 and my brother at 32 was too old… are we deadass? i’m almost 24 and if i got engaged right now? i would say no. if i was pregnant right now? abort. people have normalized doing things like this at way too young of an age and it’s genuinely bizarre.

Anonymous

#2 6w

who set that system up 🤣 next time u need some company idk go out for coffee with ur friends? dont create humans?

Anonymous

#1 6w

ive been saying the same recently. im 22 and the thought of being “ too old “ already id crazy. my life has only just begun, they wanna brainwash us into a quarter life crisis and im not doing that🤣 pls ! i have degrees to complete, a life to live

Anonymous

#1 6w

adding on: i have two friends that had kids young (around the ages of 21-22) and i don’t talk to them anymore. like i’m living out my 20s and they’re parenting. people can’t get mad when they lose friends in their 20s because they decided to be moms and their friends are out having a blast. we just simply have nothing in common anymore and it really isn’t anyone else’s fault, but they can’t expect me (an almost 24 year old) to change my life to fit their lifestyle that i’m not part of.

Anonymous

#1 6w

I actually made a post the other day about how I always see women sympathizing with their mom and grandma. How they will encourage her to be single and experience life and these women do that in honor of the women in their family who couldn’t. I wish I had a family like that so bad. Instead I have a mom who plays with the baby clothes every time we go shopping and tells me she “needs” grand babies. She already has some from my brother. She’s been doing this since I was 20, I’m now 23. All the-

Anonymous

OP 6w

yup. and instead of kids i want dogs so they can kiss my fat ass. miserable moms want other people to be miserable with them which is why they push the idea so hard and i’m over it.

Anonymous

#2 6w

-women in my family only ever talk about when I’m getting married and having kids. They were mad I went to college but only fine with it bc they assumed it was my chance to meet a rich husband. I graduated single. Told them I’m going to grad school. Their response? “Are you even trying to find anyone? We need babies”

Anonymous

#1 6w

like wdym im being punished bc i DIDNT have kids?😭 u can go be a mom then if thats ur dream job but dont let me see ur instagram notes saying ur all alone and everyones throwing it in ur face

Anonymous

#2 6w

don’t give a single family member a baby. i told my mom i didn’t want kids YEARS ago. she’s fine with it. you know why? because my mom doesn’t like other kids… only the two she has. these SAHMs try to make it seem like all other moms like other kids aside from their own when that’s also not necessarily true 😭

Anonymous

#2 6w

my grandma 😵‍💫 every time she sees me she mentions if i found anyone yet and tht i cant take too long bc my body won’t be young forever. THAT IS NOT MY GOALLLL OMG ask me abt my degrees???

Anonymous

#1 6w

!!!

Anonymous

OP 6w

no literally… and then they get mad when you don’t want to babysit. i don’t like kids i don’t want to watch your child i’m sorry

Anonymous

#1 6w

this is irrelevant but pls send a dm i wanna possibly share socials if ur down bc i needdd girls around me with similar energy!!

Anonymous

#2 6w

i think i dmed u! plss check if not dm me i totally wanna talk more and possibly exchange socials

Anonymous

OP 6w

I didn’t get one but I deleted all but like Pinterest 😭 idk if you want that

Anonymous

#2 6w

girl yes idc just a way to chat !

Anonymous

OP 6w

I’ll post it since it’s not really connected to me lol. Username is wildflowerandbarleyy. Pfp is a Roblox character passed out

Anonymous

#2 6w

got it!