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I am 20. Why do older people, especially men, want to put pregnancy on us? I just signed my contract for the army and the guy asked about marital status and dependents. I said I’m single with no kids. He said I should change that soon. Tf?
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Anonymous 11w

OH EW

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Anonymous 11w

REPORT THAT

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Anonymous 11w

WTF???? ✋💀 HELL NAH, Id report that shit so quick

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Anonymous 11w

You get a lot more money being married and having kids in the US military. It’s a sad reality

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Anonymous 11w

Uh you just got out of the ages ending with teen. I’d be surprised if you were even engaged.

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Anonymous 11w

Why did you sign up for the army

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I said something to someone else but it was also a guy and he thought nothing of it😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Report it to someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Too late now

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Definitely an old ignorant man

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

I told that man I do not care. I’m tired of living with people, especially a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Was

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Yeah fuck people like that. Like that’s literally just our reality and I hate it so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Me too. It’s like, you know with the job I just signed up for I am going to be traveling. Why wish a husband and child on me which will make me put a stop in my career?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Wanted to, but in my experience all those old military men think the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

its army they do it for moneey

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

Cause I wanted to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

didn’t feel like trying to get a normal job first

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

I did try to get a normal job first, the problem is no one wants to hire and pay a livable salary

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

No it’s not, find their superiors and report both their asses. It should be relatively easy to find who was working at that time and you gotta not let ts slide

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Paper trail is important for the inevitable future lawsuits though, even if you aren’t the one bringing them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

The bad thing is I told someone else up there and they thought it was normal. Women get this treatment all the time unfortunately

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