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Could you forgive and become friends w someone again who made fun of your looks and body when you weren’t friends? (If they apologized)
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I couldn’t
I don’t hold grudges
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Anonymous 3w

you can be cordial but being besties would be hard

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Anonymous 3w

Idk. I was friends with people like this but I would play along w them making fun of my looks and body too. I felt like I was just a punching bag to them so they’d feel better about themselves. I’m so much happier now that we aren’t (close) friends anymore

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Anonymous 3w

i clicked the wrong one, I absolutely hold grudges especially about things as serious as that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I forgave my ex bsf for doing this and tbh I don’t have any issues about it but now all my friends are making me second guess myself 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Well my thing is everything bad she said about me was after we stopped being friends, she apologized sm times and said she was speaking out of anger and hurt so like I forgive her but my friends are saying I shouldn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

people can change and you can forgive, but at the end of the day do you want people that were saying negative things about you at any point of your relationship with them? good or bad the people in your life should be there to lift you up, not bring you down. Also note does she talk like that about other people? Just because it isn't about you anymore doesn't mean she's changed her ways.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Honestly no definitely not anymore, her and I both talk shit about guys like that bc they just suck, like exes etc, but I haven’t heard her speak about another girl in such a way

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