well ykw hot take but your friends are supposed to be there to support you through hard stuff and that’s kind of what friends are for. if it’s bothering them it’s on them to say something. plenty of people need to process things externally (including me)

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i think it's completely normal to want support from the ppl u love when ur going thru something. that doesn't make u a burden unless u dismiss them when they want to talk about themselves

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you guys are so sweet :) i feel like im starting to get on their nerves. one seems to be pulling back from me (but i have diagnosed anxiety, totally probable that im gaslighting myself) ever since she got into a relationship, and it just seems like they don’t… care. which they probably don’t to an extent, and i get but it sucks.

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That’s what friends r for!

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I’m that person with this one friend but it’s okay because she texts me every time something incredible happens in her life (her winning tickets to my favorite singer and not taking me as the +1, her winning thousands of dollars gambling, etc)

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