imo DONT have kids if u aren't ok with being a single mom. u NEED to be prepared for any outcome
this isn't just because a man can leave- he can be emotionally absent, become disabled, get sick, die, lose his job...
thank u for coming to my ted talk😭❤️
I’m planning on being a single parent (adoption) because I want kids but don’t want a relationship, but that’s only once I can reach stable financials & can take the time to take care of the kid