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I’m so tired of my bf dictating the mood of the house. Like wdym the whole place feels sad and dead bc i told you not to use a money lending app to get smtn we dont need when youre trying to get back on your feet financially
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Anonymous 2w

this is how my dad is, i'm telling you it doesn't get better and it will truly start to dictate your life. unless he takes a serious change you should consider breaking up with him. no amount of love is worth this behavior and I promise you'll grow more resentment if he doesn't change

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Anonymous 2w

u shouldn't have to feel like u have to mother ur partner for these things. he's immature and bad with money which will affect u greatly if u build a life with him

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Anonymous 2w

you do not deserve to live like that

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Anonymous 2w

woof this sounds exactly like my most recent ex good luck soldier (RUN)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Its how my parents are too. It’s starting to remind me of my childhood, and it’s why i dont interact with them much. This will most likely turn into a fun fun fun conversation we get to have at the end of my finals week.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

this behavior isn’t normal btw, but it’s how i grew up bc my dads moods dictated the energy of the whole house if he wasn’t just straight up physically abusing everybody. it’s toxic as hell and it took me way too long to realize i didn’t have to live like that and dump him

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