Yes, I’m judging if you have your first child by man that already has kids. Yes, I’m judging if you guys have kids together and y’all not even together. Yes, I’m judging if you have kids and you are poor and you can’t even take care of yourself.
My stupid ass cousin got with her boss who had a kid already, treats her step daughter like shit and decides to have 3 kids in the span of 5 years and is trying for another…