Girl Talk on Sidechat | The fact that people still use the excuse “I’m just a girl” is so crazy and irritating. Cause being a dummy isn’t a girl thing. It’s a you thing.

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Girl Talk 26w

The fact that people still use the excuse “I’m just a girl” is so crazy and irritating. Cause being a dummy isn’t a girl thing. It’s a you thing.

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Anonymous 26w

i thought the “i’m just a girl” thing was like a way to go against (?i can’t find the right wording) the “boys will be boys” mentality

Anonymous 26w

Literally like two days ago i was listening to men at my workplace talk about how a woman in a different department made a big mistake and literally went “I’m sorry I’m just a girl” and now their level of respect dropped greatly for her bc she didn’t own up to her mistake and trivialized it

Anonymous 26w

but i’m just a girl…

Anonymous 26w

No I completely agree. It’s so be little-ing

Anonymous 26w

Oh I just say it as a joke to mean something similar to “I just work here” vibes. I don’t really know how else to explain it

Anonymous 26w

this. if you make a big mistake and/or just do careless things and you say “i’m just a girl” in response to people holding you accountable i in fact don’t like you. grow tf up.

Anonymous 26w

Men don’t even have to infantilize us anymore, some of us are doing the work for them. It grosses me out

Anonymous 26w

I’m just a girl

Anonymous 26w

I’m sorry i love that there’s less pressure on me to be more successful because people expect less of women

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Anonymous

#1 26w

Girl no you aren’t. You’re a strong women like ?? Be proud of that!

Anonymous

#3 26w

an ik i am so wrong for this like this is so anti feminist but i literally love when guys expect less of me. i love being in class and not feeling bad when i have to lean over and ask the guy sitting next to me something. they eat it up. guys love being smarter and im happy to let them be smarter

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Anonymous

#3 26w

Dude yes this is so wrong if you lmao. You don’t have to play dumb to be loved. If that’s the case the guy is a pos anyway. This is a crazy take girl.

Anonymous

#2 26w

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Anonymous

#2 26w

no like it’s not that i want to be loved i just hate when people are disappointed in me. in situations where guys are smarter or stronger than me i dont feel like a disappointment because nobody expected me to be better anyway

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Anonymous

#2 26w

i’m meeting expectations

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Anonymous

#3 26w

Dude whatever 😭 still insane. I don’t like when people are disappointed in me either doesn’t mean I be little myself ?

Anonymous

#5 26w

That’s actually insane, how could a grown ass women say that at work 😭😭😭 so dumb

Anonymous

#4 26w

Read my comments. No you aren’t.

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Anonymous

#2 26w

I’m just a girl

Anonymous

#4 26w

No just a dumbass it seems

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Anonymous

#2 26w

I’m just a girl

Anonymous

#2 26w

yeah i was jk i don’t wanna be associated with #3

Anonymous

#2 26w

who are u to tell someone if they’re just a girl or not

Anonymous

#2 26w

Sometimes I wonder if the trepidation some ladies have about calling themselves a ‘woman’ instead of a ‘girl’ could have anything to do with the intersection between sexism, misogyny, and ageism? I have heard so many ladies say ‘oh, don’t call me a woman’ or ‘oh, don’t call me ma’am’ and it makes me sad that we both don’t have a solid equivalent to ‘guy’ and that society’s made ladies feel so badly and fearful about growing into a woman. I’m sorry if I’m being the person who’s “too woke”. 😭

Anonymous

#4 26w

You’re just stupid hope this helps!

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Anonymous

#7 26w

Read the freaking post you understand what I mean lolll it’s be little- ing to women how do you all not realize that ??

Anonymous

#2 26w

I’m just a girl

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Anonymous

#3 26w

your lack of self esteem would typically be funny if the way it was manifesting wasn’t so detrimental to other women

Anonymous

#3 26w

try to not be a people pleaser

Anonymous

#3 26w

who is out here expecting less of women??? name one thing society doesn't expect from women

Anonymous

#5 26w

Oh my god that’s insane. I thought the “I’m just a girl” thing was a joke that ppl said when they accidentally spilled something on the counter not for a legit mistake at work 😭😭

Anonymous

#10 26w

I get that I think it’s silly, I just am saying doesn’t matter if they say I’m just a girl or I’m just a women it’s messed up either way.

Anonymous

#19 26w

THIS like if I said it it would be after hitting a curb or something