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Stop! Having! Kids! If! You! Cannot! Afford! To! Have! (More)! Kids!
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Anonymous 10w

Literally my brother and his gf do this, she’s never had a job in her life which is also crazy and he barely makes any money

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Anonymous 10w

You mean purposefully? Just cause birth control and abortions are getting increasingly less accessible

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Anonymous 10w

Poor people shouldnt have kids?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

I don’t think poor people can’t have kids, my family wasn’t very well off ourselves. However it hurts me to see families with 7+ kids in severe debt and they just keep having more. I do not think it’s a healthy environment for children to grow up in if they don’t have their basic needs provided, or have to watch their parents constantly stressed over money because it rubs off on them and cause some pretty deep trauma. What I am saying is that if you CANNOT provide basic needs for a child,

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Financial troubles can pop up after kids are born of course, but people will still continue to have kids despite KNOWING they cannot afford them or provide them with what they need. I did not say poor people can’t have kids, but if you know you can’t afford to care for one, it’s horrible to bring a child into that life especially when you are aware of your finances and especially if it was a planned pregnancy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I didn’t say that you said that …I was genuinely asking😝

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

And I was genuinely answering your question!:)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

thankssss

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

she’s whataboutism-ing you on purpose girl don’t pay any attention

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

you’re stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Stupid people shouldn’t have kids

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Okay?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10w

Did you not read my other comments lmao? Yes people who are knowingly choosing to have kids knowing they cannot to have them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Afford* to have them

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

LOL thank you🙂‍↕️

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