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Girl Talk 7w
if my man ever goes a whole day without sending a single text, i am dumping him the next day
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Girl Talk 7w
we need to stop treating our boyfriends like our husbands!! like i should be able to go a full day without talking to you and not have a mental breakdown
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Anonymous 7w

The original post is about codependency, so yes you’re valid in wanting to dump a man who refuses to text you all day when he can, but if you know he will be busy all day or unreachable (ex: on a flight, hiking, in a dead zone) you shouldn’t have a mental breakdown over it.

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Anonymous 7w

they are downvoting but ur right

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Anonymous 7w

idk i feel like a day isn’t that deep as long as the next day you catch up

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Anonymous 7w

unfortunately this post is fueled by a situationship who hasn’t texted me back

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Anonymous 6w

Thank you for agreeing with me. My post was not about codependency but being a good human being.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

no one is saying you should talk to your significant other ALL day but yall should be talking everyday

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

yes i meant not counting when he tells me in advance he’s busy or when there’s an emergency

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

like i’m sorry i just value little check in texts and “how was your day” phone calls. if he doesn’t value the same thing then don’t be in a relationship with me🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

i’m a lot more forgiving with a 3 second “i’m sorry, i’m super busy today/not in the mood to talk today” than not having an explanation.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

well ya know different people different boundaries ig

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

i’m not hating on people who are too busy to talk 24/7, by all means sometimes i’m the one that’s busy. i just think that if they can’t talk for some reason to communicate that instead of silence (i’ve been ghosted a lot)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

sure i get the principal just personally im not gonna trip over a day of not speaking but thats me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

i get it. i might be overreacting about one singular day but the guy i’m talking to, or rather, the guy who is NOT RESPONDING is really pissing me off 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

and it is always your right to be pissed off queen

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

i’ve been on delivered since thursday and i haven’t gotten a phone call in two months. i gave him a deadline until tomorrow and if there’s still no response i’m moving on

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