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Girl Talk 22h
Is this a safe place to say I blew my bf for the first time (ever) and get advice from not creepy men? 😭
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Anonymous 22h

not a creepy man, just a girl, but my best advice is use coconut oil to help if he’s okay with that! my mouth tends to get super dry so it helps with that and also it taste good, so if u close ur eyes it kinda helps it not taste like ur just sucking on flesh haha but def talk to him about that before and see if that’s something he’s comfortable with. and it’s cheap and not super gooey

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Anonymous 22h

thats cool. 😎 lol i personally enjoy the gift of giving BJ, what kind of advice were you looking for?

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Anonymous 22h

Be aware of your teeth scraping against him, note the tip is usually the most sensitive area. Usually I don’t start by putting it in my mouth, instead I’ll start with around his dick and move to the outside of his dick / balls. I am a teaser so usually I will just lick with my tongue (no mouth) and use my hand a little until he’s more turned on, and then I usually go in slowly with my actual mouth. I agree with #1 by starting soft and slow. And 110% communicate with him. some guys like it sloppy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Yeah I do enjoy the giving aspect of it. Idk just like how can I do it better 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

it's better to start slow and soft then the more turned on he gets, go in with more intensity. take him deeper, more wetness etc. consistency is key. you dont have to do too much all the time. i like to do the same thing for a while then when i get bored i do something a little different. but i dont do any insane changes all at once. it is a journey and he will come. patience then just communication...

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

when you're not having sex its important to talk with him about what he likes or doesnt like. its not weird or silly thats just awesome. i love talking about sex with my man, we call them our "sex debriefs" and its fun as hell. in the moment he'll let you know if he's enjoying it probably touching the back of your head or whatever. personally i hate this so i have taught mine to just hold my hand tightly lol. its super sexy. negotiations like that make it super hot too. idk have fun girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

some guys prefer less attention on certain areas. Some guys think it’s hot to grab your hair or take more control. Remember: it’s not only about his pleasure it’s about YOUR comfort. You should be having just as much fun as he is. so be sure to speak up too!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

and since it’s easier for me to actually do it with the oil then it makes me feel more comfortable and confident to do kinda whatever he likes if that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

Oh that actually sounds kinda fire

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

Do I use my hand as well? I was like holding it while sucking but idk if I needed to? And lowk it was kinda in the way but idk, it wasn’t bad or anything just not sure 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Right! We were talking during and I was asking yk what I could do better, if he liked it, etc lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

When I use my hand, I usually focus on the tip or the upper half of the penis. I’ll try and suck and or tease the upper portion and use my hand to jerk him off at the same time. It can definitely be hard to coordinate it at the same time, it takes practice. once you get into the flow of it though it gets easier

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