
This just made me realize that comics often make the girl seem wrong for dumping the hero or being mad about stuff easily explained by his hero identity when she doesn’t know but a lot of stuff a hero does looks like huge red flags without the context of being a superhero. Like completely ghosting her for weeks (he’s off planet), cancels plans at the last minute (fighting villain), sneaking off at random with no explanation (fighting villain), unexplained injuries (battle wounds)