
I was so sick and just devastated when I found out that my former best friend was lying about her SA story the entire time. Like I knew her since we were like kids, and I have trusted her since. And all this time I was comforting her and offering her support just for me to find out that she is lying. I found out because I confronted the guy that supposedly SA’d her and it turns out she deleted her message on her phone and I saw her original messages on his phone claiming
That she will get revenge on him and to wait and see. I then asked her about the deleted messages and she bluntly said. “He was being mean to me and my friends at a party.” Like yes being mean is a bad behavior but what she did was beyond horrendous. Immediately told my sorority sisters and got her banned from greek life and to never contact me again or I’ll press charges.
It was a rlly messy process, because that guy got kicked out of his frat and we sisters all vouched for him. I also had to tell my parents about the whole ordeal because they thought that me and her were still besties and when her parents found out, they stopped paying for her tuition, and sent me an apology letter which was rlly nice.
No yea, men who SA ppl should not be forgiven at all costs and is an automatic hatred. But for women who lie about it, I am just so deeply disappointed and a shame on you moment. Like we are alr the disturbingly most SA’d demographic group and still having some women lying about it as some cruel joke is by far the most depressing thing ever