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A girl got mad at me today because I didn’t acknowledge that she’s trans? She said something about being trans and I said “oh I didn’t that” and then she got mad and assumed that I was pretending to not know??? cause it was “obvious” and i’m ???
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Anonymous 2w

Girl she’s just being insecure, I promise you are not the villain here 😭 how fucking weird would it be going around openly acknowledging everyone’s gender when we meet them?

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Anonymous 2w

yeah that was weird. sorry you had that experience! i hope you don’t take it as a representation of trans ppl, a majority of us are not like that lol 🩷

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Anonymous 2w

you said nothing wrong, she must be still insecure/self conscious about her looks. you are not responsible for that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I just got panicked because I was like wtf??? I didn’t know her pre-transition so how the fuck would I know?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

she was like “so did you just think I was ugly or what?” and then telling my other friend that she couldn’t believe I couldn’t tell and that I must be lying. So it was definitely insecurity, but I was like come on 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Even if you did it’s still weird unless she brings it up herself. My coworker is a trans woman and I knew her before she transitioned or even came out, and she definitely does not act like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Why does that feel like internalized transphobia 🤨 equating ugliness to being trans

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

idkkkk but I definitely have decided to start limiting my conversations with her. I hope she can get over her self consciousness but I did not like how that conversation went at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Do you have to interact with her often?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Sort of? She’s friends with my other friend so it’s like a mutual thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Ahhh I gotcha. I wasn’t sure if it was more avoidable because personally I cannot be around people like that :,) but best of luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

don’t worry I know lol but it was just a weird interaction

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