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I was on the pill and gained 30lbs. I was at my max bmi index, even a little over, and even though it was all in my legs bc of hormones, I was still technically obese. Now I’m losing it. I tell my girl friends this and they go “oh noo you SO skinny!”
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Anonymous 5w

It kinda ticks me off cause I’m not ashamed that I’m 20lbs over what I want to be, it’s just a fact. But my friends are acting like I’m being self deprecating and it kinda annoys me Like, no, right now I’m overweight. You don’t need to consolidate me. You don’t need to tell me I DONT need to lose the weight when I’m actively trying to! I tell them “I just lost 4 pounds!! My next goal is 10 pounds!” Or whatever, all excited, and they go “girl what you dont need to lose 10 pounds”????

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Anonymous 5w

I know this isn’t what your post is about, but if it helps you feel a little better about your health, belly fat is the real killer in cases of obesity. I’m very similar where I gained 40-50 lbs on the implant, but luckily most of it went to my butt and thighs. Ignore them, you know your body and it’s awesome you’re able to do something about it 🫶🏼

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