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I feel like my boyfriend is gay but idk what to do
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Anonymous 5w

why🫣

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Anonymous 5w

Real as fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I don’t want to like stereotype or like make something only for a specific group. But like his clothes is like very like idk not like normal yk how some guys just be wearing plan shirt and jeans. He wears high waisted jeans and like tshirts with like the frog from Sanrio or like graphics but not like the cool graphics more like the could be something a girl could wear too and his jeans always have some type of design like stars or some anime.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I mean .. do yall do stuff??? Could be bi?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

When he sits he crosses his legs like girls usually do. He has long hair (which I don’t find like a sign) but he listens to like girly songs n shit and like always knows all the girl TikTok sounds yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

We have tried… he can’t keep it up

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Anonymous 5w

I mean yeah I think, like kissing and like boob touching and sometimes dj set 💀 idk how he reacts around other men tbh. He always hangs out with his friends like him and them and I’ve never seen how they interact

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Anonymous 5w

There is no sex cause of that reason, it’s happened multiple times and every time I ask him he’s like “I’ve looked it up and it’s some sort of performance anxiety” so yeah I just dropped that. We are going to hit our 2 years in June

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah ik I’ve thought about it, his mom and siblings are all liberals and his dad like idk in the middle I would say but he does not like gay people. His older brother has a gay friend and he’s told me how his dad doesn’t like him cause of that. Which I have thought like maybe that’s a reason but I also don’t want to just jump out and say he’s gay when he’s not, yk? I just idk I don’t know what to do

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Anonymous 5w

dj set is like fingering/rubbing her clit type action btw😭🤍 lol

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah I love him and if he is gay I know he’ll always be my best friend and I’ll always love him no matter what. I just feel conflicted, thank you for the help though, I’ll definitely have a talk with him

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