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i want to have a fun wedding that feels like a function but my entire family is super conservative and i don’t know or have 20+ friends
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Anonymous 2w

Your future spouse might have a ton of friends and fun family members, that’s how it is for me and my partner lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

This is how I am but then I get sad thinking about how sad I’ll look at my own wedding with none of my friends there and I just want a courthouse one again 🙃

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

good point i’ll count on that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Ugh I hate that you sound exactly like me ☹️ the way my partner put it to me makes me feel at least a little better, but you have to think about it in the way of you gaining all your partner’s friends and family as your own. It feels a lot less lonely that way. If you do want to stick to a courthouse wedding though, we just did that this past week actually and it was a TON of fun. We got dinner and went to a bar with bowling after lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Disclaimer though — we are still planning on a “real” wedding, we just can’t afford it anytime soon and we needed to get him on my insurance plan bc he’s paying like $400/month otherwise. We’re calling it a “business deal” 😂 but just saying, it’s not really as lonely and sad to have a courthouse wedding as you’d probably assume!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Thank you! And also congratulations!!!

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