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Girl Talk 4w
how do yall feel about guys when their only answer to any question is “ it don’t matter to me” my boyfriend does to me all the time and i swear it gets on my nerves so bad
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Anonymous 4w

They think they’re being agreeable by being impartial and letting you choose, but really they’re forcing you to make decisions all the time and it gets exhausting. But it makes it seem like he doesn’t care. They don’t realize we want them to care

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Anonymous 4w

if he says stuff like that always choose the lowest effort option

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

it’s over things that he needs to decide to. like whether he wants more food or not during dinner 😐

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

They’re also very bad at determining their own feelings and used to mommy always deciding things for them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

exactly, literally calls his mom for every minor thing. it’s aggravating

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

that’s what i have started doing. like if he says it doesn’t matter to him heather or not i get something for him or not i just dont get it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

A good place to start is refusing to make those decisions for him

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