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i really think if i lose 30 lbs people will be nicer to me. i want to lose weight for health reasons and idc what people think, but i am genuinely curious how people will treat me if i lost weight
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Anonymous 4d

You could document it for science if you were genuinely curious. Keeping an actual log would be definitely interesting but only if you think it wouldn’t impact your mental health

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Anonymous 4d

I have gained and lost the same 30lbs for like 6 years now lolol I can vouch that people behave differently towards me at different weights. It's interesting

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Anonymous 4d

Ppl are a lot nicer in my experience. But I lost 80

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Anonymous 4d

I have lost almost 15 lbs so far and no changes to the way people treat me yet (beforehand it wasn’t exactly negative just average ig but I’m ignored a lot). Goal weight is 20 lbs away

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Anonymous 4d

for me what makes the biggest difference is hair

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

everyone b sooooo nice when ur blonde lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Oooo interesting! That would actually make sense but I wonder why that would influence interactions

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 4d

im not sure. iwhen i was blonde ppl would randomly compliment what i was wearing more (i would wear hats a lot and theyd always hype me up), i would wear the same exact hats when i have brown hair and actually would get comments saying how much they dislike what im wearing!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

that's interesting bc i've been blonde before and never got compliments, i was about the same size that i am now though so maybe that has something to do with it. maybe i'll experiment by working to lose weight, wait for a few months after hitting my goal, then going blonde

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

may i ask how tall you are and ur weight????

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

5'5", 195 lbs

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