It’s not about the kink itself (possessiveness, lifestyle control, etc), if you’re into those things that’s fine. What’s not fine is men assuming/expecting you to be into them, and trying to force you into that dynamic before you’ve had a chance to even discuss it, let alone consent. Even if you’re into the dynamic, this should concern you

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Op of the post I 100% agree with everything you’ve said. I was lowkey scared because I had to think over it when it’s obviously not a good thing especially when you don’t know someone.

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Yeah into this kinda thing in an established bedroom way but first messages to a stranger is weird and a block

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I haven’t been on hinge for more than a day and I’m already deleting bc what is this bullshit?? He’s delusional

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