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maybe unpopular opinion? if a man asks for your snapchat or ig but not ur number…go ahead and leave him alone. no man thats serious only communicates via photo or needs messages to disappear 🫢
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Anonymous 2w

ESPECIALLY if hes 22 or older. thats ur warning sign that hes not a serious individual. maybe 6 years ago…certainly not now.

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Anonymous 2w

Idk, for me I hate using my phone number and prefer stuff like Snapchat and discord because it’s easy and I can access it from my computer

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Anonymous 2w

no really tho because why wouldn’t you need my number for planning a date and if you’re not taking me on a date why are we exchanging at all. it’s a no for me

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Anonymous 2w

I just give men my snapchat for safety

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Anonymous 2w

i could be weird but ig feels less personal than my number yk 🤔

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

exactly my point.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

personally i like a bit of separation in the beginning. plus i like being able to check who he surrounds himself with. although after 25 my mind will probably change on this with a lil more development. i’ve given my number in the past and it’s still instantly turned sexual

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

yeah i just think the odds have been lower. especially w dating apps n stuff. i deleted my snap a year or more ago. and if i tell a guy who asks for snap or ig that i dont use either and dont get a response or he hesitates…i alr know what it is. its $30 w att to change a number if shit gets weird. im looking for a relationship so if thats a dealbreaker for him its a dealbreaker for me bc if he doesnt wanna get personal, hes wasting my time🫣

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

maybe it’s just my area is flooded with f boys 🤔 too many get sexual quick and by seeing who they surround themselves with it’s kinda easier to tell (plus checking who they follow). i get ur side too btw!! i don’t have snap anymore either but i do like having ig. i like to start off more chill and feel a guy out before getting personal immediately

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

you get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

fs. to each their own! i just dont post on my ig and have all notifs off so its like..not only will u not find any info there, you wont be able to reach me! ig is far more acceptable than snapchat. but i like an out the way kinda guy so even thats side eye worthy. for me personally.

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