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girl talk has its problems but posting in male majority communities genuinely feels like this
371 upvotes, 19 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "girl talk has its problems but posting in male majority communities genuinely feels like this"
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Anonymous 1w

no bc i was curious about sex advice and the first post i saw was a man saying how he saw a “skinny asian lady with big tits” cross the road and that he’s been thinking about it all day

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Anonymous 1w

What do you mean? Unless I explicitly state that I’m a girl they usually assume that I’m a man.

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Anonymous 1w

this is genuinely the only community i use

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Anonymous 1w

Where is that clip from?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

idk what YOU mean bc regardless of your experience this group is majority women 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I don’t think you understood their comment

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

istg nothing fills their heads more than sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

i think it’s from a game called rental

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

on steam btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

ok what did they mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

It’s not that. Women can be just as horny as men. The problem is the dehumanizing way that men talk and think about women. They view those they find attractive as objects instead of respecting them as people the way that women do. It’s not the amount that they think about sex, but how they think about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

there has to be some correlation between the amount someone thinks of sex and how they view sex, for both genders. if someone were to constantly think of sex, you’d have to believe their perception of sex with the other person would be objectifying. though the WAY it’s being thought of has more impact than how much , i believe.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Idk. Maybe

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

i think maybe the way they view it is what spirals into how much, too. can we just blow this whole planet up already and start over i’m tired of this 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

wait rereading this and now i’m confused too lmfao but i think maybe they’re referring to #2’s mention of sex advice ? or in the male majority groups, men usually assume #1 is a guy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

1 couldn’t be talking about 2 though, they commented first 😭 the might’ve meant people assume they’re a guy and if that’s their experience that’s fine i just can’t relate to it and it has nothing to do with my post lol, girl talk is the one community i can actually post about feminism/world events without having a dozen men in my comments freaking out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

or even just like. normal stuff like complaining about birth control side effects or whatever 😭😭 idk ik men do lurk in here but the comments/dms i get when im in other communities are so much worse

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

wait ur right i forgot #1 would have commented first… lmao now i’m confused too cuz id assume its way more common to be assumed as a girl????😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

right?? that’s why i was so confused bc ive never NOT been assumed to be a girl 😭

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