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i don’t understand people that are like “my partner doesn’t like my pet so i’m getting rid of the pet” like bro that is not the partner for you then don’t you dare get rid of your pet for someone ur dating
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Anonymous 6d

I know some people have strong feelings abt this but to me it’s the same idea as getting rid of a child that your partner doesn’t like. That almost never happens but I think pets should hold the same weight because they’re living, feeling beings, too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

i would literally take a bullet for my cats you better believe i’m not giving up my cats for anything including a partner or child

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Absolutely. I love the adorable little idiots who live with me, and it was crucial that my fiancé loved them just as much when we started dating. We both sobbed when we had to rehome one of our cats (he turned out to be special needs and we tried so hard to accommodate him) so I’m happy knowing I will never be in that situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

if my partner doesn’t like cats they’re gonna learn to love them or they’re gonna fuck off 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Just so you can set your own bar high, know that my fiancé is aggressively allergic to cats so he takes a daily allergy pill to try to curb those symptoms instead of ever suggesting getting rid of them. You should have that expectation too, don’t accept any less!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

my best friend does that too she has 2 cats that she absolutely loves lol my bar is already hella high (i’ve never had a relationship with anyone lmao) and that is definitely already part of it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Good! Cats are better than toxic men, that’s for sure

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