Anonymous #1 1d

21 and 36

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Anonymous OP 1d

I’m 20, and if I saw one of my friends our age dating a 36 year old, that would be a red flag to me. I would think “Why does an almost 40 year old want to be with a barely 20 year old?” because of the two of you being in very different life stages. How did y’all even meet?

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Anonymous #1 1d

On here😭I made a post and he dm’ed me we’re not dating or anything rn

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Anonymous OP 1d

Absolutely not. There is no reason for an almost 40 year old man to be on an app whose demographic is meant to be typical college aged individuals. That’s a huge red flag in my opinion 🚩

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Anonymous #1 1d

yeahh you’re right, thank you

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Anonymous #2 1d

okayy thank you

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Anonymous OP 1d

I would immediately block him so he doesn’t try to message you again. Because in the nicest way, that’s not how a 36 y/o should be behaving

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Anonymous #1 1d

No but he’s nice and hasn’t been creepy, he gives good advice. I’ve told him it’s purely platonic

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Anonymous OP 1d

I’ve gotten emotionally attached to him

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Anonymous OP 1d

I understand that you have told him that. But this is exactly how manipulation starts- they say they understand, they say all the right things, they act sweet and nice…. Until they don’t.

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Anonymous #1 1d

ugh why are ppl evil😭he’s a psychologist too he prob knows all the tactics

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Anonymous #1 1d

How do I block him? I don’t want to- we’ve been messaging for weeks😭

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Anonymous OP 1d

just start ignoring him

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Anonymous OP 1d

You can Google it

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Anonymous OP 16h

he’s a completely anonymous stranger on an app he’s way too old to be on hitting on girls wayyy younger than him. he might be very nice and sweet and give good advice but that is a massive red flag and predatory behavior for sure

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Anonymous #5 16h

ok but what if we’re like siblings like older brother little sister no romantic feelings and he’s not completely anonymous he sent me his tiktok

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Anonymous OP 16h

Two things. One, Girl you’re defending it so bad then fine go learn ur lesson omg 😭 they tried to save you. Two, psychologist you say…and 36…this girl might’ve had an interaction herself with said man 😬 which page was if

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Anonymous #6 16h

Shoottt it was on ask anything he just turned 36

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Anonymous #6 16h

I’m sorry I agree with you I need to let go😭

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Anonymous OP 16h

As someone who lowk got attached to someone on here once HAHA there’s a reason a lot of people are on this app cause irl they really have no ability to befriend people or smth. Also a 36 year old shouldn’t be implying smth with someone sm younger, like damn did no one his age want him? Clearly there’s smth wrong. Also ur fine I don’t think ik said man but please use ur brain for, ur 21 u haven’t met half the ppl u will in ur life yet don’t get attached to unc when you’re #YoungHoe still YKWIMMMM

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Anonymous OP 16h

And rmbr psych dude, he gave his tiktok cause he’s tryna get you to trust him HE SOOOOO KNOWS HOW TO MANIPULATE THATS HIS WHOLE DEGREE BE SO FR

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Anonymous #6 15h

Omg that’s a relief but yk what YOU’RE SO RIGHT THANK YOU I’m blocking him

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Anonymous OP 15h

BLESSS THE LOVE OF UR LOFE ISNT FROM THIS DAMN APP GIRL FINE URSELF FINE SHYT UR AGE WHO U WONT HAVE TO THINK “damn is he manipulating me or is this real”

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Anonymous #6 15h

GIRL YOU’RE SO RIGHT 😭😭 thank you for snapping me out of it fr

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