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the concept of a man in a nike tech, no degree, and no money asking ME, an educated woman with degrees plural AND my own money for a date?? it almost offends me that u think id stoop that low
145 upvotes, 17 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "the concept of a man in a nike tech, no degree, and no money asking ME, an educated woman with degrees plural AND my own money for a date?? it almost offends me that u think id stoop that low"
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Anonymous 5w

Ya so like. This is kind of giving rude. Judging someone for what they do for work and how much money they have? In this economy? Girl

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Anonymous 5w

Tbf if everyone thought like this nobody would be able to date anyone

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Anonymous 5w

hm i wonder what wearing a nike tech has to do with any of this…

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Anonymous 5w

You got a good point ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

that’s not true, most people end up with someone in their socioeconomic class

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Tbh I feel like guys tend to make more in the relationship bc he usually pays for more which is why I find posts like this coming off as rude

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

bruh this is 2026 idk wym. more women are college educated than men nowadays

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

More college educated but not necessarily in higher paying majors.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

its about standards and principles. i am the prize i wont dumb it down to someone who didnt lock in like me. men do this all the time and yall are quietttt about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Are you deadass rn? Nursing majors are predominantly women, so is psychology, there’s also MANY in forensic science, law, and engineering. All of these majors make a hell of a lot of money in their respective fields. You sound dumb as hell rn.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah so I hate to break it to you but not everyone has access to the resources it takes to earn an education. It’s not a matter of whether they “lock in” or not. So I’m personally never going to use that as a reason to judge their character

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

excuses im an immigrant from a third world country and had no family or financial support. the same kindness is not offered to women, NEXT

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

hot take: you should 100% be allowed to do that if you yourself have attained everything you expect your partner to have. i really don’t care. i’m not dating a man who has quite literally nothing to offer me. what’s the point 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

🤷🏻‍♀️ ty baby cus men are gonna have standards we can too

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

the people who disagree have attained nothing so their standards are on the floor. i said what i said

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

I don’t think this is a hot take I agree with it from that perspective. You can want your partner to have certain things etc. my main thing is not calling it “stooping low” to date someone who may not have that or putting 100% fault on them for it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Good for you!! Congrats that’s hard and you should be very proud of yourself that it worked out

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