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is it wrong that the only reason i want to date/get a boyfriend is bc i want kids and i want the kids to have a present father 😭 if being a mother wasn’t my dream then id probably be happily single my whole life
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Anonymous 1d

be so careful this was my mom’s dream and she picked a guy she thought would be a good dad even if she didn’t love him and he ended up being awful. i don’t even talk to him anymroe

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Anonymous 1d

pls be so careful w/ this. whatever you model w/ your partner will have a significant impact on your kids. if y’all don’t actually have feelings for each other, that can be damaging to your kids’ perception of what a normal relationship is (speaking from experience lol)

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Anonymous 1d

I don’t think it’s wrong to want a happy family

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Anonymous 23h

yea kinda tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

yeah that’s very much what i worry about. i want to be in love with the guy i have children with, of course. i think what im trying to say is, yes, i want to find love, but having my own kids is the goal so im mainly looking at their potential as a father, whether thats their genes/looks or personality. with that being said, im not out here hooking up w randoms or trying to baby trap a guy 😭💀. i am someone who grew up in a loveless marriage and my father wasn’t super present, so i def want to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

avoid that. i think im just saying that a how i look at dating. like are u going to be a good dad is mainly my concern. not getting into a relationship just to have kids, which i realize reading back what i said is kinda how it sounds. my bad 😭

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