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HELP my friend told me he’s had a crush on me for years and made a move I never liked him like that until now but he has a really bad reputation from hs so idk what to do what he says feels genuine but I’m worried he’s love bombing
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Anonymous 6w

Honestly.. I say go for it. And if it ends up you being fucked over okay so what? There’s thousands of people on this campus so it’s not like there’s no one else in the world. Just set clear boundaries and communicate.

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Anonymous 6w

For context he’s cheated on most past gfs and ppl say he’s like manipulative and stuff but for the 4 years we’ve been friends he’s always been really sweet I just never wanted to date him bc of this but we hung out for the first time in a long time last night and he seems like he’s changed a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

oh god run. all I needed to hear was cheated on multiple girlfriends, he will never change.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

he talks all the time about trying to overcome his past and like his reputation and stuff but I just can’t tell if it’s bs I would hate if someone compared me to my 14yo self but at the same time I don’t wanna fall for it if it’s a lie

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Ty for ur input🙏🙏

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