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hot take but gay men are not with us. js because you like dick doesn’t mean you know what it’s like to be a woman. you’re still a man regardless of your sexuality. fuck all of you that disagree

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Anonymous 2d

it’s even worse to me because at least straight men will treat us with a sliver of respect if they’re attracted to us, and we can use that to our leverage. we can’t leverage anything with gay men because they could go their whole life without needing women for anything. at least with straight men they need us if they want a gf, wife, or kids.

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Anonymous 1d

yeah gay men can be some of the most misogynistic people I know. They think that because they’re not attracted to women they can make fun of them or treat them as less than human.

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Anonymous 1d

And white gay men are oftentimes superrr racist too, literally stealing aave like it’s candy

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Anonymous 1d

especially when gay men make threats towards woman because they’re a “gay feminist” like that’s not how it works. you’re a man who made a threat to a woman.

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Anonymous 1d

Fuck you if you disagree is such a healthy vibe

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Anonymous 1d

I’ve seen some gay men that are way too comfortable making misogynistic remarks

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Anonymous 1d

especially to regina george gays who bully women all the time over literally anything "as a joke" and it's really just misogyny

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Anonymous 1d

Literally bro

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Anonymous 1d

yes AND this goes both ways a lot of the time. Lots of gay men can be still be shitty and misogynistic, and a lot of straight women will assume that being a woman means they know what it’s like to be queer and use gay men or queer women as accessories or token queer friends but get mad when its not just a quirky personality trait but a serious and politicized identity that puts you at real risk.

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Anonymous 1d

i’m a bisexual man but i really agree, i see way too many gay men just use the terms b**ch and c**t in the same vain as slurs. it’s disgusting. they think they get a free pass to call any woman they don’t like the c word. disgusting behavior.

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Anonymous 1d

Preach this

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Anonymous 1d

yeah regardless of if they’re a log cabin republican, gay men are not women. they are men. same goes for trans men

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Anonymous 1d

Genuinely I think some of the worst misogynists are just gay guys who haven’t realized the reason why they have women so much is because they like men and deny that fact because then they’d be like women

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Anonymous 1d

Facts bro!!

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Anonymous

#1 1d

fucking preach

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Anonymous

#1 1d

Straight men HATE women. There are some bad gay guys out there but the majority love and respect women. It’s the complete opposite with straight guys

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Anonymous

#3 1d

Wait til you find out how women treat men they don’t find attractive. I think it’s just a thing people in general do - not just men. It’s a bad thing but women are guilty of it too

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Anonymous

#4 1d

this irritates me so bad. i have no idea why they think it's okay or why it's become so big in the queer community.

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Anonymous

#12 1d

i mean yeah trans men aren't women but unlike cis gay men, they have been women before and have very often experienced misogyny themselves.

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Anonymous

#9 1d

Right, and that’s why gay men ALWAYS refer to women as “bitch” that’s not respect

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Anonymous

#14 1d

Its only the way other girls call eachother bitch. You can call a gay guy bitch. And im gay and definitely do not call ladies bitches unless they do it first.

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Anonymous

#12 1d

Frankly ive lived a girl a long time so i definitely get the girl experience and can have a say! Im not going into spaces unless for safety though, nor do i belittle women like some do

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Anonymous

#4 1d

You’ve probably seen that white guy on tik tok then. Well I think he’s white?? But he’s gay obviously and has like huge lips. He’s pretty popular. I’m gonna find his name but whenever I see him or that Landon guy, it just feels like cosplay or mockery. The AAVE and mannerisms feel like costumes, it’s so icky

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Anonymous

#15 1d

but it’s not directly that way. not everyone is like you are, a lot of them will just start throwing around bitch. and you won’t feel the impact of the word bitch the same when you’re called it than when we’re called it. it’s just different.

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Anonymous

#16 1d

Leave

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Anonymous

#11 1d

A lot of the time it goes black women > gay black folk > gay white folk > mainstream. Then by the time it hits mainstream, it's a "gay thing" because that's the last place it was co-opted from

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Anonymous

#12 1d

Society still views me as a confused woman lol, I still need reproductive healthcare, don’t speak for people who you have no idea abt

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Anonymous

#20 1d

?????

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Anonymous

#14 1d

Every time a gay man has done that to me it’s been a terms of endearment. That’s how I address my female friends so it makes me comfortable. Also it’s super common in gay culture. If you’re not cool with that you should say something, any reasonable person would back off.

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Anonymous

#5 1d

ily😻

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Anonymous

#23 1d

so just in general as a queer woman i am very wary of gay men AND of straight women especially when they wanna talk about the other one in a way that has little to no nuance. I think it’s very concerning how quickly these discussions can get filled with lowkey homophobic or queerphobic sentiments in places like girl talk which is kind of a notoriously cishet girl dominated space.

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Anonymous

#23 1d

and i’ve also seen the same thing happen the other way around where discussion of the way straight and cishet women treat gay men and queer women quickly gets filled with these little misogynistic jabs and quips which is just disgusting.

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Anonymous

#16 19h

Doesn’t matter if you agree, you’re still a man in girl talk

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Anonymous

#20 19h

i’m just sharing an opinion, literally defending the concept of respecting women 😭😭 what is your fucking problem

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Anonymous

#20 18h

Girl idk if you know this but you don’t have to have joined the community for posts to show up on like the main trending page of yikyak

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Anonymous

#22 18h

I do know that, doesn’t mean they have to interact

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Anonymous

#16 18h

My problem is that men are all over this group that is specifically for girls and ik posts can do up on trending but men still are constantly in our dms saying nasty shit and on our posts giving their opinion. Thank you for defending respecting women but this isn’t the place

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Anonymous

#20 18h

*show not do

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