Sidechat logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Girl Talk icon
Girl Talk 1d
How come many women get rlly defensive over not wanting to date bi men? Like ppl saying its rape culture to ask for a good reason that isnt rooted in homophobia, im actually curious about the reason why, there are valid reasons for some lesbians 🤷‍♀️
comment

10
upvote 13 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1d

Like obv no straight woman is obligated to be attracted to every type of man, im just like why cant we unpack the Why?

upvote 7 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1d

The rape culture part pmo! Like yes let’s diminish a life changing CRIME to someone asking you to explain why you won’t date bi men w/o being homophobic

upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1d

A lot of women think being bi automatically makes you super feminine if you’re a man.. I’m friends with so many bi men and I can only think of one who’s a lil fruity, he’s so real tho Or they assume bi people are cheaters, like do you really believe a straight man won’t cheat just because he’s only into women??

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1d

who’s saying it’s rape culture i’m confused.

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Deleted 1d

Comment Deleted

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Ive been talking to ppl on here saying it is that or restricting womens choices or something like i just wanna know why

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1d

I mean yeah thats not what im trying to say. Im wondering why that preference exists if not homophobia

upvote 14 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

wack. i’ve also been curious to ppls explanations. i think a lot of it just comes down to masculinity norms

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Right like im a lesbian who used to not be super into bi women cuz i was outed and shit but investigated my biases and cut that shit out! I cannot get an actual answer from a straight woman tho

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

society has really pounded this idea that men should be a certain type of masculine and women should be with that type. maybe part of it’s natural too. women have stereotypes about what they think bi men are too

upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

It all comes down to patriarchal gender norms and biphobia against men is in part rooted in misogyny

upvote 1 downvote