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maybe she didn’t read them (didn’t know there’s a time limit on unsending and edits). but when you know that the plans are for that night and it’s obviously night time, you watch the time if you’re still interested, or you text.
7 upvotes, 9 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "maybe she didn’t read them (didn’t know there’s a time limit on unsending and edits). but when you know that the plans are for that night and it’s obviously night time, you watch the time if you’re still interested, or you text."
my best friend keeps reading my messages and ignoring them (ik bc i can no longer edit or unsend them). last week she told me she wanted to see the finale w me. today she said “see you later!” now she’s across town at someone else’s house. :,)
16 upvotes, 1 comment. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "my best friend keeps reading my messages and ignoring them (ik bc i can no longer edit or unsend them). last week she told me she wanted to see the finale w me. today she said “see you later!” now she’s across town at someone else’s house. :,)"
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Anonymous 6w

it is rude and inconsiderate of her but you’re also tweaking a little. all of these messages within an hour means you’re probably dedicating too much energy and putting too much dependence on this person.

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Anonymous 6w

I had a similar falling out with my bsf. She acted like she still loved me, but turns out she had been complaining about me to a mutual friend for over a year. She ended up ghosting me entirely and I never got an explanation from her, only what I heard from the mutual friend. It’s hard.

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Anonymous 6w

this happened to me too. i never understood why people do it, but some people end friendships by completely going ghost. it’s very immature and im so sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

she’s my best friend and sister. like we literally call each other sisters. we’ve been best friends for 13 years and made plans specifically with each other and not a group (“we” meant my parents). and it was within an hour bc the show came out at 8

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

You know her well. I was the same. 8 yrs of friendship, gone. I hope yall can work it out but if not, maybe we can form a “ghosted for an unknown reason by the person you feel closest to” support group 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

i don’t think it’ll be ghosting. i think it’s just her having a bitchy night. we’ve had similar fights over the years. she’s also my next door neighbor and if she would try to ghost me, i’d fucking show up and demand answers bc i’m not playing that game lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

but i’m sorry you went through that ml :( this friend and i did have a friendship breakup a few summers ago and that sucked. i couldn’t imagine if it was by ghosting

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

It’s okay I think it taught me a lot! But just still hurts haha. Especially when you traditionally spend nye with her. Knowing yall have fought before I’m sure it will work out!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

And yes I also threatened to show up at my bsfs door and my mutual friend said “she felt like she was being harassed” like girl??

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