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i need real advice how to move on from being in love with someone & also being really attached to them. little back story, he cheated on me a little over a month ago and last night i saw he was watching naked girls on facebook reels! i can’t move on? why?
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Anonymous 1d

girl bc you’re still checking up on him! you need to block him and go no contact. that’s the only way to really move on

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Anonymous 1d

block him, write down all the wrong things he's done to u and read it over and over when u feel urself romanticizing the relationship. no good parts can overlook how he did u dirty

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

💔 i know ur right and idk if this is a dumb question but how do i stay no contact and cope from that?? he’s kinda the only friend i have so it’s hard to just stop talking cold turkey..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

not dumb at all dw <3 it’s a lot easier said than done but it IS possible. a few years ago i went through a really bad breakup and i struggled a lot with it too. even if he is your only friend, is that the kind of person you want in your life? being alone is scary but think of all the energy you could put into making new friends that you’re spending stressed about him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

get on bumble bff and start making new friends and putting urself out there. u do not need to waste any more time on this man

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