When i was in this situation it was fine for him to hangout but I put a hard stop on him sleeping over, it made me really uncomfortable to have a random man sleeping in the same room as me + it's just awkward because doing couple things with a roomate is uncomfortable

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well I think you should talk to it with her cause it’s both of y’all’s room but then again you pay for it and so does she if anything y’all can always put a curtain

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If I was your roommate I would totally understand

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this is definitely a question to ask her! start with saying that u want to make sure she feels comfortable and everything in ur room, but u also want to see ur bf, and ask if she’d be willing to let him sleep over occasionally and how often she’d be okay with. maybe have some additional ground rules like maybe it can only be on weekends if that makes sense for u guys.

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