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How tf do I get my first bf in college????
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Anonymous 4w

Kidnap him.

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Anonymous 4w

DONT USE DATING APPS. DONT PULL MEN FROM PARTIES. The shittiest men come from those Do meet men from clubs and activities that you both mutually enjoy, or from the dining hall, lawn or residence hall common areas. Quality men tend to be there if there is such a thing as a good man…

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Anonymous 4w

The apps are helpful! That how I went on a bunch of first dates my freshman year! (I took a break and got back into them) then found my current bf and we are 9 months in!

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Anonymous 4w

in my experience, don’t. just don’t 😔

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Anonymous 4w

Great question cause I want to know too!

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Anonymous 4w

Make the first move

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Anonymous 4w

Met mine on hinge and we’ve been together a year and a half. Best relationship I’ve been in and I’ve been in 3 others, 2 long term

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Anonymous 4w

I used a dating app

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Anonymous 4w

No because for real. It’s so hard. Everyone seems to either be not interested in having relationships or has come here with their long time partner 😭

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Anonymous 4w

I met my boyfriend through a student club!

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Anonymous 4w

Step one: don't.

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Anonymous 4w

Idk man im a senior abt to graduate in the spring and I’ve still never had a boyfriend before

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Anonymous 4w

i dunno man every guy i’ve ever pulled approached me

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Anonymous 4w

Real.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Can confirm this worked for me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

instructors unclear now i’m in jail 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

well damn 🥺

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

hey i'm a freshman guy at usc wondering how to get a first gf too 😭

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