i’m so very sorry. how scary is something like that when you weren’t expecting it :( he didn’t ask for consent and assumed it was alright. he definitely should have asked. you don’t just do that.

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As we discussed insinuates to me that you discussed that he could do that, not sex

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We cuddled after bc like I didn’t know what to do and I was just covering my pu incase he was still freaky mode but like help idk if it’s a big deal or no? I started crying while we cuddled but idk if that was a virginity thing or assault thing

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If y’all only discussed him eating you out and he didn’t ask to insert himself or even warn you, I’d say yeah that’s assault. I’m so sorry this happened to you, definitely talk about it with a therapist if you can and report it if you feel you need to

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Thanks everyone for answering like seriously!

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