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Is it weird that my friend and her bf since 8th grade haven’t had sex? It’s not because of like sexuality or abstinence and it’s not her, just him. Like she acts like it doesn’t bother her but she’s made concerning comments.
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Anonymous 3w

Ik it ain’t my business but it’s so strange to me. Like sex isn’t important for every relationship but she has kinda made it obvious it bothers her.

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Anonymous 3w

i've been with mine for 3 years and haven't either because of him, there's nothing particularly weird about it. no matter how long you've been together if someone isn't ready then they should not be having sex, if that's a problem for your friend then she needs to make that expectation of her needs clear and find a different partner if it's going to impact their relationship

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Anonymous 3w

what's his reasoning then

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

According to her, he said he just doesn’t want to or have the desire to? But he is adamant that he’s not asexual.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I agree but she’s been with him forever and loves being comfortable. But every once in a while (mostly when drunk) she’ll be like “I wish he would be more intimate with me” and like go on a rant.

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